There has been times where I had to stop at a grocery store, or gas station near the incall to use the rest room. If I do that, I will most certainly ask to use their bathroom to wash up prior to sitting down and starting my date. Even if I showered, I take a traveling tooth brush with me and toothpaste. Its hard to over do brushing your teeth and having a clean mouth.
Reading reviews with a VIP membership should eliminate any fear you have about how the date will go with a provider. I actualky like a massage after I'm done. Im totally relaxed and satisfied, so a b2b massage is nice.1. 'Freshening up'. In a lot of reviews I've ready the provider asks or encourages the client to 'freshen up' before the fun begins. So far my handful of sessions were very early in the morning, so she didn't ask (and I'd showered less than an hour ago anyway). But outside of early morning appointments--if a provider asks me this (or even if they dont)--what exactly is the etiquette, and how exactly should I 'freshen up'? A quick shower?
2. Full Service vs Sensual Massage. Many providers offer sensual massage along with full service / traditional escort service. I've been avoiding these because I'm not interested in a massage (sorry ladies! I'm sure you're great at them). But its limiting my options in providers (especially when I'm sticking to newbie-friendly providers listed on P411). So--how can I communicate to a provider early (in the screening/booking phase) on that I'm looking for FS, not a massage? (Not even as an ice breaker, really.) Do they always know this?
Thanks all.
Hi all. I'm a relative newbie with a few questions on Etiquette.
1. 'Freshening up'. In a lot of reviews I've ready the provider asks or encourages the client to 'freshen up' before the fun begins. So far my handful of sessions were very early in the morning, so she didn't ask (and I'd showered less than an hour ago anyway). But outside of early morning appointments--if a provider asks me this (or even if they dont)--what exactly is the etiquette, and how exactly should I 'freshen up'? A quick shower?
2. Full Service vs Sensual Massage. Many providers offer sensual massage along with full service / traditional escort service. I've been avoiding these because I'm not interested in a massage (sorry ladies! I'm sure you're great at them). But its limiting my options in providers (especially when I'm sticking to newbie-friendly providers listed on P411). So--how can I communicate to a provider early (in the screening/booking phase) on that I'm looking for FS, not a massage? (Not even as an ice breaker, really.) Do they always know this?
Thanks all.
There has been times where I had to stop at a grocery store, or gas station near the incall to use the rest room. If I do that, I will most certainly ask to use their bathroom to wash up prior to sitting down and starting my date. Even if I showered, I take a traveling tooth brush with me and toothpaste. Its hard to over do brushing your teeth and having a clean mouth.
Reading reviews with a VIP membership should eliminate any fear you have about how the date will go with a provider. I actualky like a massage after I'm done. Im totally relaxed and satisfied, so a b2b massage is nice.
1. 'Freshening up'. In a lot of reviews I've ready the provider asks or encourages the client to 'freshen up' before the fun begins. So far my handful of sessions were very early in the morning, so she didn't ask (and I'd showered less than an hour ago anyway). But outside of early morning appointments--if a provider asks me this (or even if they dont)--what exactly is the etiquette, and how exactly should I 'freshen up'? A quick shower?
2. Full Service vs Sensual Massage. Many providers offer sensual massage along with full service / traditional escort service. I've been avoiding these because I'm not interested in a massage (sorry ladies! I'm sure you're great at them). But its limiting my options in providers (especially when I'm sticking to newbie-friendly providers listed on P411). So--how can I communicate to a provider early (in the screening/booking phase) on that I'm looking for FS, not a massage? (Not even as an ice breaker, really.) Do they always know this?
Thanks all.
1. Best thing to do is at least wash your hands. If it's a late afternoon or evening appt, and you have not recently showered, it would be a good idea to ask if you can take a shower.
2. Read her reviews, unless the reviews or profile says a sensual massage is part of the deal, it's likely you will get right down to business. If her profile says just FS and maybe GFE, I would not worry about the sensual massage part. In no way, should you mention anything sexually specific. If you have done the proper research, you should know ahead of time whether or not a sensual massage is part of the deal.
Swim
Washing hands is very important. Ladies like to know that if you are going to put your hands all over (and maybe inside) their bodies, they're CLEAN hands. (Be sure your nails are short with no sharp edges, also, if you expect to be using them on tender parts of her body.)
But the other place you want to be sure is really clean and fresh is "down there". That is, if you want the provider to GO "down there". I don't know how many providers have told me how much they appreciate guys who are clean as a whistle there, and how much they hate it when a guy doesn't do that (I've seen entire threads on that subject). So while you're in the bathroom washing your hands, use the opportunity to double check "down there" get it all nice and tidy. You'll be glad you did. 
It will put her in the right mood.
As for massage, there's no harm in simply stating from the outset that you are not interested in massage. No need to say anything more than that.
But a lot of girls will provide...better service if you opt for the quick shower.
(Actually, I'm not talking about me, but from talking to other girls I'd guess 75% of providers overall REALLY like to have you shower just before.)
since often even the drive over to an incall on a hot day will often leave you a bit sweaty. It also gives the provider the knowledge that at least she won't have to endure a stinky slob. I always will partake of an offered shower. The only thing I don't wash is my hair since it is long and would take forever to dry...and it's uncomfortable rolling around with damp hair on a clean bed 
Taking a shower also gives you an opportunity to leave the donation there in the bathroom upon your exit for her to find as she excuses herself to now "freshen up".
like a lady. A happy provider is more apt to give you better service.
Common sense, delivered in very few words. You are obviously, no kid.
Some johns prefer to be right than happy though.
Thanks for the feedback everyone!