If you need a key to access guest room floors, then you will have to meet her downstairs. If there is a bar or coffeeshop in the hotel you could meet and start there with a drink or cup of coffee, but do expect that time to be part of your date. What you don't want to do is be hanging around the lobby pacing, looking at every woman that walks in. You also don't want her waiting around in the lobby for you to come down and meet her (that's actually not so bad in a big busy lobby, but in small boutique type hotels with small lobbies, that can be not so discrete.) You can te it so she calls you when she parks and you meet her in the lobby just as she gets there so nobody is waiting around. I have also met up in the hotel parking lot, and taxi drop off areas.
Of course all of that is for when keys are required for the elevator. If not just give her the room number and have her come right up.Going to setup an outcall session with a provider to visit me at a hotel. How does it normally work right before she arrives? Do I just give her the room number and wait or should I meet her in the lobby when she arrives? Will she want to confirm my stay by calling the room? So many questions.
First Call/Text: give the provider the name of the hotel & ask that she contact you a second time when she arrives.
Second Call/Text: when she arrives at the hotel and contacts you, give her the room number.
I always contact a provider an hour before the session to confirm the appt; get a confirmation first before you pay for a room. So I suppose that's a "three call" system. Don't wait in the lobby for her, that's conspicuous. Just go to the room, take a quick shower, put on some music, etc. --
so take your cues from her.
She will most likely want the room number BEFORE she arrives at the hotel as well as your real name. Often they call up to the room to be sure you are in that room before they arrive.
but I've NEVER been asked by a gal to do what you suggest... and in fact would walk away if I was... and would counsel newbies to walk away as well. There is no need to give out your real name at all. I realize there are some that require it for screening purposes, but I've found them to be in the minority. If you are okay with giving it out, that's fine, but I would not suggest to any newcomers that it is SOP.
Whenever I've hosted... I've always given the lady the hotel and asked her to call or text when she arrived, then I would give her the room number and tell her that the door would be ajar and to come right in. Never had one refuse yet and have never had an issue.
His opinion is just an opinion, like the rest of ours. As usual in this hobby there is more than one way to do things and none are right or wrong.
Personally, I have also done many outcalls and have never once been asked for my real name. Many hobbyists will not give out that info for various reasons and that is totally understood. In my case I am sort of blackmail proof, and I am not opposed to giving out my real name to providers, but never in my "hobbying" life have I been asked for it! In fact, the only providers who know my real name are the ones I am close enough to that I know their real names.
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ESPECIALLY for a newbie, who is unlikely to have references - giving his name is not such an anomaly when meeting ladies!
As to the outcall specifically - Many ladies will not shower/make pretty/drive and come to your hotel without assurance that you are actually there. In order to assure that you are there they will ask for your name so the hotel operator can connect you to the room. Unfortunately (for security) hotels will not connect a phone call to "room 203".
I can understand why ladies would ask for this.
And if you screened in alternative ways (ex., via references) I can see why a gent would also not want to give this.
I guess it would come down to who wants to see the other most at that point.
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you'll need to meet her, if they don't you should tell her where to find the elevators so she doesn't have to wander around looking for them. It's not a bad idea to leave the door ajar so she can walk right in instead of standing in the hallway knocking on your door.
If you need a key to access guest room floors, then you will have to meet her downstairs. If there is a bar or coffeeshop in the hotel you could meet and start there with a drink or cup of coffee, but do expect that time to be part of your date. What you don't want to do is be hanging around the lobby pacing, looking at every woman that walks in. You also don't want her waiting around in the lobby for you to come down and meet her (that's actually not so bad in a big busy lobby, but in small boutique type hotels with small lobbies, that can be not so discrete.) You can te it so she calls you when she parks and you meet her in the lobby just as she gets there so nobody is waiting around. I have also met up in the hotel parking lot, and taxi drop off areas.
Of course all of that is for when keys are required for the elevator. If not just give her the room number and have her come right up.