i there,
I am a small business owner and my weeks can get really busy sometimes. Its hard for me to make time to play on short notice, so I often book 3-8 days out. I do this so I can choose the best possible day and time to provide myself a 3 hour window. I like to be well groomed and to have time for travel to and from the ladies incall location. Being in a rush to squeeze in some time to meet a provider makes me feel antsy, like Im running errands and thats not what I want my time to feel like. Is 3-8 days out too long to schedule an appointment? Should I send an E mail to keep in touch in that time to avoid a NCNS? If yes, what should I say? My second question is about contacting a provider who is inactive for a little while. I notice a lot of providers on P411 every day, then for a while they dont look at P411. I would be sceptical of contacting a provider who has not signed in for 30-90 days, but sometimes I see someone I would really like to meet and they have not signed in for say 10 days. Is it okay just to send them a poke thru their personal E mail off their website, with out any references or scheduled time and just ask if they are currently available? I often think they might be taking a break or traveling and just like to say that I saw them on P411 and would like to meet them. I say if they are available, I will send them a message in P411. I dont like E mailing my P411 info to providers, or agencies, because it could be intercepted by someone who could pretend to be me. So, I only set up appointments and communicate thru the verification site once I got their attention. Is this a bad move? I dont want to add unnecessary communications, but I am selective about who I see and do my research on providers before selecting one, so I am not always looking for Ms right now. Thank you in advance for your responslike to book in advance, usually 5-7 days ahead. I like the anticipation.
As far as inactive providers go, I'd go ahead and use her preferred method of contact. Mention that you have not seen her on that site in a while and are wondering if she is still active. There are 3 possible answers. She contacts you and says she is active or she isn't. The 3rd is you don't hear back from her, from which I would assume she is no longer active. How she answers (or doesn't) will govern how you proceed from there.
Swim
And yes, when I book a little longer out, I do send a short note a couple days before, just to confirm things. But half the time, the lady has sent me a note to confirm first. I'm a P411 guy myself, and I agree, if it's been 30 days since a lady has logged on, I'll pass too. 10 days certainly gives more hope that she is currently active. I don't think there is anything necessarily wrong with your approach of contacting via different means, I've done it myself once or twice. But generally speaking, if they are on P411, I usually rely on that only - it's just such a simple system that works so well for both parties. And if they don't reply to a note there in a timely manner, then I figure they most likey wouldn't have replied to an email very quickly either (especially since being on P411, she will know that you are not a complete time-waster, unlike some others emailing her).