Check the TER Ads and read resent reviews in your area, then have fun exploring the possibilities.
I am very new to the hobby and women in general. I have been seeing this provider for a while now and it doesn't seem like she is that into me. Others have had similar experiences with her and some have had great ones. Naturally I want to see other girls and I asked her if she had any friends in the hobby she could recommend me. She never helps me and was wondering if I am being rude or just not to ask these type of questions? Is it wrong to ask for recommendations?
There are some that will happily set you up with their fellow providers, and others that will actually get mad at you for seeing others. If other providers have come up in conversation in a positive way then that's a good sign that she'll help you out. If she never mentions another provider or only speaks ill of them, then don't ask - just start shopping.
Check the TER Ads and read resent reviews in your area, then have fun exploring the possibilities.
Thanks for the replies! I just have a bit of anxiety so its hard for me to just shop around.
It gets easier, and if it feels like she isn't enjoying being with you it can get a whole lot better. Don't be afraid to look around, there are many ladies out there who will make you feel like you are the King.
it is perfectly fine to ask a provider? We are all here to have fun and be safe. I am not totally certain why women take it offensive? Because, well..its like a one way street scenario...because hopefully providers get to meet several hobbyists! AND truthfully..some people just connect better than others..no insult to anyone involved...no malice intended..I ACTUALLY SUGGEST other girls to clients...if I can help them have a positive experience..then so be it..JUST MY PERSPECTIVE....for better or worse..doesnt make me right...