But do check it out with her first. There could be some foods she is allergic to, and also she may not drink.
Also, any food or beverage should be in a seal container just for her sense of safety.
So I'm wondering, since I'm new to this still... Is it ok to treat your appointment like a date? The reason I ask is because I'm thinking of bringing some food/dessert and wine to one of my visits. I have a few probiders in mind to do this with becsuse I genuinely enjoy their company. I have not gotten the courage yet because I don't want to be interpreted as clingy.
But I scheduled an appointment with a provider who was my first entry into this hobby. You can say I lost my hobby virginity through her. Over a short period of time we seem to "click" better and better and we (I) enjoy chatting with her.
I'm not having any delusions here... I'm not a stalker or have any false assumptions that I am Mr Special, but she seems to enjoy my visiting her too.
So at what point is it considered "clingy"? I Plan on seeing this provider regularly but not so often as to over abuse the privelages. And I also see others since every provider gives a little different experience. One loves FIV. One loves BBBJ. and DATY. One does not do FS yet another does and likes to set the mood... Etc, etc.
Is it clingy to treat your provider like a much anticipated date? Or is it just bringing out the best in eachother for a short period of time?
Thank
...as long as you're not badgering her about her "real" feelings for you and prying for details about her real life. Yes, this is about enjoying the best of each other for the designated appointment. If you're looking for more (i.e. time/emotional commitment) than what you're paying for, then you are getting clingy.
I'm sure she'll be happy to share a meal with you during your date/appointment, just ask her
But do check it out with her first. There could be some foods she is allergic to, and also she may not drink.
Also, any food or beverage should be in a seal container just for her sense of safety.
Good advice. Well the wine is already posted on her website - as tio what she prefers. And as far as dessert... I emailed her asking what she likes. She responded pretty quickly. So I'm looking forward to a great evening!! I guess I'll just ask what she's comfortable with and re-affirm my intentions/boundaries. I'm just trying to treat her well one human being to another and enjoy the evening.
Btw... Thanks for all the great advice here. I have yet to have a bad experience as a result of TER. Ofcourse I'm a youngin' still
You can ask her if she likes wine, red or white. Sometimes they list this in their sites or on p411
I love it when he comes to the door like it is a date...dressed up, smelling hot and looking that way. I can't count the number of bouquets of flowers, bottles of wine, chocolates, toys, perfumes, shoes, gift cards...etc.
xoxo