Some gals ask for but don't always check references, he could have been trying to pull a fast one using your good name.
entlemen, just because a courtesan screens you, does not mean that you should list her as a reference.
While I have had a few courtesans agree to visit with gentlemen I have pre-screened, but not met, that is not the norm. While my screening process is thorough, it is not the same as an actual date.
I am addressing this topic, because a gentleman I pre-screened, just listed me as reference. I replied to the reference request, but told the couretesan, that while I screened him, I NEVER visited with him.
Gentlemen, if you have not visited with a courtesan, please do not list her as a reference; or, if you do, tell the courtesan (you wish to visit with) in advance that you were pre-screened, but never had a date.
Just my .02.
Hugs and Kisses,
Kell
...stupid (like the guy you mentioned) that it has to be said.
Besides the fact that his action was presumptuous, any time a hobbyist wants to use someone as a reference, he should contact her and let her know. Obviously, this dope did not do that. I hope he reads this thread and realizes his mistake.
Swim
be trying to use her as a reference. Also, common courtesy is to ask the provider you want to use as a reference before giving her contact info to the new provider you want to see.
Some gals ask for but don't always check references, he could have been trying to pull a fast one using your good name.
unfortunately some newbies will try most anything when starting out..remember you have to create your own track record..not make one up..
and if I forget I always ask after the fact. Since I know some ladies don't give references and sometimes I don't click with a provider regardless as to how good the main event was. And almost all of them thank me for not assuming as such.