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Touring other cities......
morganmaxwell See my TER Reviews 1733 reads
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What are some tips on touring other cities? I don't want to spend money on hotel and airfare, get to my destination and nothing's going on. This will be my first time since I'm still fairly new to the business so if any of you ladies have any great tips, I'd really appreciate them.

Thanks:)

Thanks for the advice. I've been asked from lots of guys, if I tour other cities and I'll love to but I wasn't sure if I should start now or wait. Some aren't sold on two reviews, while others are dying to see me but, I'd hate to take the chance and lose out on more than what I put in.

List out that you're considering a trip and put down specific dates, such as 3 weeks out.  Make the ad clear that you need several interested parties or else you may have to postpone or skip that city.  Travelling is not easy due to the increased marketing and mobile presence you have to develop.

As Julia noted, one trip may not make it big, but you also will never know until you try.  Just look for places where you can stand out, or there's an established market for your profile.  And never forget that you will be the NEW woman in town for a LIMITED time -- guys love the newest, and especially if there's a small window of opportunity.  May not make sense, but the little head doesn't think too well at the best of times.

If you have a car or can otherwise get around easily, start branching out close to home so you don't have as much invested. Try day trips and if they work you can extend them and then move further out.
Remember, you'll meet less than half the guys that express an interest in you so traveling cross country to see them could turn into little more than an expensive vacation.  
Good luck and have fun.

It helps to post that ad on P411 and possibly others as well, but they don't book their flight or hotel until they get at least a few solid appointments each day with some back up guys asking for any open slots.  

Having more reviews from known mongers seem to help with the credibility and spamming the local boards with ThreADS probably help too, as long as you don't make it too obvious. lol Actually, the obvious ThreAD posts seem to work just as well for the girl.  

If you don't get enough advance-appointment requests, you can always say that your tour is cancelled. It's not a big deal for most mongers cuz cancellations happen and if it doesn't make financial sense for a girl, I wouldn't want her wasting her time anyway.  

I may be one of the rare ones, but I often book weeks, sometimes months, in advance and I follow through roughly 99% of the time. I only cancel if it's a true urgent thing that warrants a cancellation cuz I'd rather keep the appointment and have a great time.  

What's funny is, I often make my work schedules around my hobby schedules. ROFL  
I mean, what's more important? :)

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