Hi Reggie!

You're paying for her time, and if you're paying for something else, you're breaking the law. So you decide together how you want to allot the time. Buying VIP so you can read your prospective lady's stories will help you in that regard.

And I would further suggest that before you even do that, you read the Newbie/Self Help Manual that is linked on this page as it will explain a lot about the hobby to you, as well as how to use TER.

But as two your two specific questions:

1.  Today most quality gals (the ones with good reviews here on TER) will give you the full time you pay for.  At one time many gals were "one and done', despite how much time you paid for.  This is were reading the reviews comes in.

2.  Gals like to use their own supplies, so bringing your own is not necessary, though if for some personal reasons you wish to bring your own, do be sure it is in a sealed carton.  Even then a gal may not accept using it.

Welcome to TER

Educate yourself, read the self-help center (link is located near the life preserver) and read back many pages here on the newbie board. If you do things right and learn how to choose your companion carefully, playing in the hobby can be the most fun you'll ever have. Rush into things and pick the first pretty face you see in an ad, it could turn into a nightmare.
 You can't go wrong buying VIP so you can read reviews, then look for a lady with lots of reviews by guys who have written many reviews themselves.
 You need to decide how much information you're comfortable giving an lady so she can screen you, some want a lot of personal info and others need less. You might want to look into a verification service like P411 or Date Check, they will help you pass screening and allow you to look for newbie friendly providers.