providers' reviews. If it's indicated that she is really bi, and you're attracted to her, contact her and explain the situation with your wife and get her reaction. Since you have no references, joining Preferred411 is a good idea, as they let providers indicate if they are newbie friendly. It's a lot better to give your personal info to one site like this (their servers are outside the US) as opposed to giving it to several providers until you get some references.
Read the self help center, it will help you in learning how to handle the hobby. If you have more questions, this is the place to ask them. SwimThis is my very first post. Glad I found this place.
I have a question about providers.
Wife likes women, always wanted to be with one but I have no idea how to approach this other than trying to find a provider who does couples. We're late 20 somethings. She has brought it up a few times lately.
Would want outcall, drinks first.
I probably should start by getting on a 411 whitelist but giving out all that personal information makes me nervous as I own a business.
I'm definitely in uncharted water here.
If so, discuss that with them and see if they are willing, or maybe they'll know someone else who is into it.
It's definitely not every gal's cup of tea. Most likely a willing escort would want to speak to your wife first to be sure she is not only aware of this but interested as well.
If you don't know any gals yet, then I would suggest posting on either the ISO Board or your local board.
providers' reviews. If it's indicated that she is really bi, and you're attracted to her, contact her and explain the situation with your wife and get her reaction. Since you have no references, joining Preferred411 is a good idea, as they let providers indicate if they are newbie friendly. It's a lot better to give your personal info to one site like this (their servers are outside the US) as opposed to giving it to several providers until you get some references.
Read the self help center, it will help you in learning how to handle the hobby. If you have more questions, this is the place to ask them.
Swim
to see if they see women. Most providers will mention on their personal sites if they see couples, and from my extensive research I can happily report that many do (at least in my area). So my advice would be to check their personal website because TER's list of services does not include if providers see women or couple's, tho I'm told that might be changing in an upcoming site update.
Thank you everyone who responded. I will check out local boards. I appreciate all the help and will post if i have any other questions.