Some say it can be a escort that does DFK, DATY, and it can be CBJ or BBBJ.
Whats your thoughts on a GFE?
Must she do BBBJ?
xoxo
I wouldn't want to see a provider if she didn't do BBBJ. A "real" girlfriend would and so I expect a GFE provider to do the same. But I can understand if if provider doesn't want to DFK and that's OK with me.
At one time not too long ago, when you'd meet an escort she would be more or less no nonsense and let's get right down to business. It was OK, and certainly there were exceptions who were much more open and friendly, but all the same, no one dared equate a session with what a date with a real girl friend would be like.
Then some very brilliant escort decided to market herself as GFE (I'd love to find out who was first to be the one.) And then everybody was off to the races so to speak.
So, whether or not you got CBJ or BBBJ, or any other kind of service, a GFE would at least be sociable and cuddly and maybe offer you a glass of wine. (Sadly not so often anymore.)
Somewhere along the line GFE started to equate with the menu (BBBJ, DFK, etc.) and not the style. As a result some gals can be somewhat cold and unsociable yet call themselves GFE on account of providing those kinds of services.
The world of marketing is a constantly moving target, and I fear will forever be.
Another reason not to be taken in by labels, and instead read the reviews to find out what really goes on.
I would personally categorize myself as GFE, as one of my favorite parts of this is socializing with the man and making sure he enjoys himself both sexually and is intellectually stimulated by me.
But I think I've decided to just market myself for who I am, not a label.
Happy Labor Day,
xox
... as you so often do.
I've seen many threads on what "GFE" means in terms of sex acts a provider will or will not offer. But just as every real girlfriend is different in terms of what "menu" she'll offer her boyfriend, it's impossible to pin down just one menu for GFE providers. And as someone else correctly pointed out later in this thread, it's "GFE", but the provider is NOT your girlfriend. Thus expecting every provider who offers GFE to offer BBBJ, for example, is unreasonable.
For me, the simplest way to describe a session that's GFE is that I forget I'm with a provider during the session. She makes me believe that she's not spending this time with me because I paid her to do so, but because she is genuinely interested in my having a good time... and also makes me believe that she appreciates my returning the favor, and enjoys my company.
That being said, if kissing (at least LFK and preferably DFK) is not offered, it's not GFE in my book. Every girlfriend I've ever had would at least kiss me... some right before kissing me off.
whereby the gal really "gets into" the role, if she is doing it right. However when the curtain comes down as it always must, she must be able to get back to who she really is. It takes a bit of wherewithal to pull that off sometimes, and I really appreciate the difficulty that some gals face with this.
And a client is not her chosen boyfriend.
I know it isn't real life, but the Girlfriend Experience is supposed to resemble it, isn't it?
When staging Macbeth, they use daggers with retractable blades.
Imo, a girl that advertises GFE and doesn't DFK or BBBJ is engaging in deceptive advertising. Now of course if he is a personal hygiene disaster, all bets are off but I am referring to the average guy whose breath, cleanliness, etc is immaculate.
Some girls in the biz want the increases to their biz the GFE label will produce but don't want to provide the services that most guys consider to be GFE.
A girl can provide or decline any menu options she feels comfortable with, but just be honest and say "I am not a GFE" on the website. They can't have it both ways HT.
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LFK, DFK, BBBJ, DATY, and covered intercourse. That doesn't mean she isn't GFE if she does covered bj because it's possible to do covered bj and still have the GFE attitude. There are some mongers that insist it isn't GFE without bbbj but I'm not one of them. I choose not to see providers that don't offer bbbj though.
The attitude of GFE is when my girlfriend and I are having romantic time. I don't want the she's pissed at me experience.
A GFE service, makes you forget that it is a service. Its passionate, and romantic and not all about the accronyms. If a lady can slip a cover on for CBJ, without it being awkward, I would still call her GFE, provided that she had the right attitude and was fully in the moment, not just going though her routine.
If the kissing isn't passionate, it is tough for me to get lost in the moment and forget that it is a service.
foreplay with both LFK and DFK. Mutual exploration, sensual touching, and everything imaginable before a great finish. Afterglow includes cuddling, gentle stroking, more kissing, etc.
In short, like a date.