Pros for Hobbyist
1) Not yours to clean, pay for, manage etc.
2) Your neighbors aren't around
3) You don't pay for provider travel time & outcall rates
4) Provider can decorate and manage the mood: sight/smell/sound
5) Provider can be more mentally & emotionally comfortable
6) Might get a naked goodbye hug & kiss at the door (love that)
7) Get to have sex in a new place
8) Lower risk of significant other finding out
9) Lower risk of BSC trashing your place
1) You have to travel to get there
2) You have to leave when done
3) Increased risk of law enforcement running sting
4) Someone you know may see your vehicle there and ask why
5) Travel risks (flat tire, bad traffic etc) increase
6) Entering a place that's not yours
7) GPS tracking on smartphone
What are the Cons and Pros of Incall vs Outcall.
I am curious about what people think.
Pros for Hobbyist
1) Not yours to clean, pay for, manage etc.
2) Your neighbors aren't around
3) You don't pay for provider travel time & outcall rates
4) Provider can decorate and manage the mood: sight/smell/sound
5) Provider can be more mentally & emotionally comfortable
6) Might get a naked goodbye hug & kiss at the door (love that)
7) Get to have sex in a new place
8) Lower risk of significant other finding out
9) Lower risk of BSC trashing your place
Cons for Hobbyist
1) You have to travel to get there
2) You have to leave when done
3) Increased risk of law enforcement running sting
4) Someone you know may see your vehicle there and ask why
5) Travel risks (flat tire, bad traffic etc) increase
6) Entering a place that's not yours
7) GPS tracking on smartphone
incall (you go to the girl)
PROS : if in your home city you don't need to get a room or have girl come to your residence. Convenient - you show up, do business, and you're out.
CONS: most busts are incall setups so avoid incalls at lower-end hotels and motels, private residences. stick to well-reviewed girls preferably traveling agency gals or indys with good review history that are visiting a higher-end hotel.
outcall (girls comes to you)
PROS: very unlikely to be a bust/LE. If you are traveling and at a hotel then convenient for you.
CONS : if the girls that shows up at your door isn't as advertised you potentially have a dicey situation if you want to cancel - she may make a scene or alternatively the agency or her booker know your room # and may just send another girl with expectation you will continue with the appointment.
Having a girl come to your personal residence is in general a very poor idea. Even if you know her from prior meetings and establish a rapport all relationships can go south. If you're married you don't need neighbors (they all watch) taking notice or you wife findings stray hairs around.
My take on things - in-call is the way to go if you are in your home town/city : go to the girl but do your homework. If you are nervous then get a room via priceline/P411 and have girl come to you.
If you're traveling outcall makes the most sense to me.
In terms of safety - you are more likely to get in trouble with a vindictive girl/wife or pimp than law enforcement so remember to consider those angles in addition to worries about Johnny Law.
Going to a sketchy incall location places you at significant risk of getting robbed. Most robs never get reported and the incidence is a lot higher than you may think
Incall is usually a bit cheaper, maybe $50 or more since the gal doesn't have to figure in lost time to travel and the cost of the cab, etc.
But this isn't always the case, so check what her rates say about this.
Sometimes a gal without a regular incall location, or who only sees one client a day will charge more for incall because she has to rent the hotel room.
I live alone, so I like to have regulars come and stay with me if they are willing to take the time to come out. Since it is usually for an overnight, they figure it is worth it, and I like to make a dinner. Also, there's nothing like that home court advantage.
I only do incalls, so I avoid gals who only do outcalls. I like her to feel secure in her surroundings, even if she had to rent a room for her incall.
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dates at my hotel. Now it is more convenient for me do to incall dates since I have to travel at least 40 miles to see a decent provider due to my city of residence.