I've been trying for the past several days to set up an appointment with one of about five providers and am hitting nothing but dead ends. Either the phone number is no longer in service (despite being listed on an ad as of just a few days ago), or the VM is full/not set up. And, many providers don't have email addresses.
Is texting an acceptable backup plan? I need to keep it short and sweet but don't want to sound like spam. Something like: Hi xyz, are you available on Friday night at 8.30 pm? I tried to call you but was unable to leave a message so I thought I would send a text. Thanks, [my name]. Is that how everyone else handles it? I definitely don't want to call over and over again because I think that is just creepy. Any advice is welcome. Thanks,c_o
Any girl worth seeing will have a website and a TER profile. The email will be listed in one of those places, or both, in proly 95% of the cases.
Are you contacting well reviewed girls here? You might be replying to fly by night, bait & switch ads, which would increase your chances of running into LE.
Though not all, most here will frown on an initial contact by text. The phones being disconnected is another red flag for me that you are not looking in the right place for providers.
See a well reviewed girl with email access. Start there and get some experience for yourself.
Hit us back here with any more ?'s.
Good Luck.
Thank you very much. All of the providers have 5+ reviews (and all of them have a recent one...). One of the providers I called tonight has more than 30 reviews going back 3 years. The websites are all Naughty and Sexy sites which tend to only list phone numbers. And, let's be honest here - I'm looking for providers in a relatively small market outside Chicago so the selection is a bit limited.
I really appreciate the advice.
Make sure you check the girls profile here if she has one, as often the email will be on that page, upper right hand corner. You don't need VIP to get that info.
...and doesn't specifically say not to text, give it a try. The worst that can happen is no response or getting chewed out for texting, but even that would be more response than you have gotten.
address listed either in their profile or on their website, then either calling or texting is the only option. If the VM is either full or not set-up, you probably should move on to another choice since her "business practices" are suspect at best. How reliable could she be even if you set a date & time?