Just bring your clean self and a smile. I've had friends come by after contruction work messy and needing to hop in the shower. I've had nights where I didn't feel like dressing up. So I showed up in my PJ's and we had a big slumber party. You can wear a trench coat with nothing underneath and I won't whip you. Well, maybe a little.....devilish grin. You're right, at least for me, it's all about the hygiene and personality.
I have been wondering for a while what the ladies' expectations are for how the man dresses for the appointment. I consider myself to be an extremely casual dresser for the most part. I'm not comfortable in "dress up" type of clothes (suits, ties, etc.). The closest thing I usually get to dress up is a polo shirt with pants that aren't specifically blue jeans (business casual). Most of the time, I dress in regular casual clothes for an appointment. I want to present who I really am in everyday life, and casual is the way I live.
I was curious to see how the ladies feel about what their clients wear. I'm aware that from the ladie's perspective, hygiene is probably more important than clothes, but I would like to know if the man's dress attire has any effect on the session itself. Does a particular style make you more or less receptive to him? Do you have problems if you are dressed "up" initially and he shows up dressed "down"? Does it really matter, since both of your wardrobes are going to end up on the floor in a matter of moments anyway? I can't say that I've ever had a lady complain about my attire, but I still wonder whether a lady could be disappointed in what her client is wearing.
I once knocked on a hotel door, the gentleman answered in boxers, shirt open to the waist, beer bottle in hand and soccer blaring from the TV behind him. I have to say I was more than a little surprised till I realised I was at the wrong room!
I have no preference at all to how a client dresses as long as it's appropriate for the setting eg if we're in an upscale restaurant then shorts and flip flops would not be appropriate I want a guy to be comfortable when he's with me.
I usually ask clients in advance if they have any preference for my attire/lingerie as some guys like dressed up, some like casual and I have no way of knowing in advance if I don't ask.
you were minding your own business in a hotel room like that and you hear a knock on the door and you're in your boxers with a beer and you open the door and it's Carrie_of_London at your door?
Holy f---in' shit batman!
Nah, that was just me trying to turn you on, Carrie.
If you dress nice enough not be get noticed by the hotel staff and in clean clothes, I am happy. Since I get dressed up for evening appts, I expect that a guy will look nice so I don't feel out of place
Men who wear thongs or whitie tighties under whatever they are wearing.. on the most part I prefer they dress comfy.. If I am coming to them I expect them to answer the door as I would if they were coming to me .. in something sexy and easy to remove lol...
hey turnaround is fair play ..
So I guess you do not want to see me, Deanna.
But think of how much fun the men's thong is to take off?
Was on a business trip with my (male) boss, riding up in the crowded hotel elevator at the end of the day, making pitstops to our rooms to change from formal dress (suits & ties) to evening wear..we make arrangements to meet in the lobby in 30minutes as my boss steps out of the elevator at his floor, then he turns and asks
"Oh wait - what dress for dinner?"
...before I can say anything one of the other riders jumps in with the witty reply: "Dont wear a dress...it just doesn't look good."
...The elevator doors close on my astonished, stunned, and speechless boss...and everyone in the elevator cracked up.
Just bring your clean self and a smile. I've had friends come by after contruction work messy and needing to hop in the shower. I've had nights where I didn't feel like dressing up. So I showed up in my PJ's and we had a big slumber party. You can wear a trench coat with nothing underneath and I won't whip you. Well, maybe a little.....devilish grin. You're right, at least for me, it's all about the hygiene and personality.
I would say if your appointment was only to visit her incall and just have sex, then I would not put too much concern on my clothes. On the other hand, if the date also included some form of "outside" activity; dinner, drinks etc. THEN I would reconsider my wearing casual clothing and wear a suit.
I haven't had any prolonged social time as part of a session, so I didn't consider it when inquiring about how the ladies felt about men's dress attire. My thoughts were just about a regular appointment.
I did have a brief "get to know you" meeting with one lady as a prelude to the festivities. In that instance, I dressed in typical business casual attire. I would dress the same for any future session that has social time planned along with it.
Mini skirt with no panties is also a popular option. Or a very low cut exposed top with easy access.
I've also had to show up in a suit. So far as I can tell, what I wear hasn't made much of a difference...I still end up being dragged into bed.
*bliss*
GDC
The ONLY way I'm ever gonna believe it is when you show up at my door dressed in that mini-skirt no-panties combination to prove it to me...!!
(oh puhlease puhlease let this work!!)
Flirtfully Yours DCGirl, DH
Otherwise, you know how it is...I'd have to run off and post my "rip-off" review!
GDC
ID wear the skirt and keep the lights down low!
I knew my ploy wouldn't work, but then you cant blame a guy for try'n!
Kisses, DH
If he's gone to the trouble to "look extra nice" then I take it as a compliment that he wanted to please me from the very start.
He's obviously treating the session like a "date" --as if we're going out on the town (even though we never leave the bedroom, LOL.)
Now you don't need to wear a suit and tie, but dressing too casually gives the wrong impression, in my opinion.