If so tell her that she has to do me first before you can be her secret bad boy friend.
Returning to my office today from my afternoon trip to the gym, I found an instant message waiting for me from a coworker/friend:
"Lex Luethor. That's you!"
WTF?! Apparently with a little Googling and a lot of time, she was able to put 2 and 2 together and find out my "secret identity"...
What a great @$%#ing day.
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With her face blurred out.. Hey hey ! never know..
deny Deny deny !
(christ lex, for this small willie winkled bald short man- you sure have them ALL after you, don't you.. OMG! Maybe your co-worker is Resident civvie! LOL!
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Uh, no...I can guarantee you it isn't RC, Ciara. 
'cause if she could just Google you up after a while, anybody else could do that to the rest of us.
"Aaaach.... the Light. It burns."
Any idea how she did that? **scurries back under his rock**
and you post on the boards it all can be googled.
Is your TER handel the same handel you us for e-mail or IM with any civies.
thay can googel the handel and any postings on TER are right up on top.
Some gun nut has absconded with my handle according to google...I am starting to dislike that search engine! lol
that sucks- you should try to find out how she did it- so it can be prevented if possible
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...and since you just admitted being snagged, she now has confirmation.
Maybe you shoulda posted it using a pseudonym.
[Why dontcha write a review about her]
She found evidience tying me to this name and googled the name to find this board. I've since removed the offending evidence linking me to this identity, but there's no getting around the fact that the woman knows my...avocation.
The sad part is I kinda liked her (as a friend), but now I feel like she peeked into my diary.
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I've usually found that those that know are smart enough to be interesting people - perhaps its time to take the relationship to the next level? Or perhaps just a secret shared...kinda like running into the boss at a swing club (oh wait - thats another story!).
-- DH
Something tells me a guy as smart as Sexy Lexy will be just fine, though. Very few have seen his true powers.
...that I become her secret bad-boy friend and that's the end of it.
If so tell her that she has to do me first before you can be her secret bad boy friend.
Feeling violated is one of the worst things one can experience. Don't lose your happy spirit over it. Many of us on this board have had brighter days just by reading your posts.
to your lavishly appointed hotel room. And then...., put the f___ of her life on her. She will be so proud to know you that she could not possibly turn you in.
Lex sorry to hear that. To me its like stalking and I'm sure many of the providers wouldnt like it if it was reversed. I know of one provider on this very same thread that has done this before in a different case.
It's an invasion of your privacy and if anything more comes of it you should take some corrective measures.
I'm thinking some of these providers need to take some ethics courses
...can't go into it here or everyone would know. I've since erased the connection.
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with the name "mr.ed" on them and the ter website as my office address. But usually people who get them think I was the voice of a horse on tv and ask me for my autograph.
Sorry Lex, that kinda sucks. Hope you can rely on her kindness and sensitivity to your circumstances.
For what it's worth, if she reads through your posts here and is not a Biblethumper or a bitch, it's hard not to like you.
QUOTE: "WTF?! Apparently with a little Googling and a lot of time, she was able to put 2 and 2 together and find out my "secret identity"... "
Or....perhaps she received secret communique from your nemisis the Accidental Avenger and her side kick...Rene the Sociopathic Snail..... Bwwwwahhahahhahah.... *cough* *cough*
I mean damn sorry to hear that Lex...hope she has an understanding of decorum and discretion.
she may decide to blackmail you for SEX...
I'd google her til you have some dirt, tit for tat or is that balls in the slinger
If you don't, she just might include you in an upcoming coffee clutch down in the lunch room. That dirt is too hard to keep a secret for most.
Let's face it, Lex, being a "bad" boy probably has some appeal to some women.
However, the question is whether she will "expose" you, maliciously or accidentally.
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side. Typically, those that go to sites where they can find out that information do it for a reason.
Lex I have a lot of friends and sure we've Googled each other to see what's up, but we've never spent "a lot of time" in it. Let alone read into "secret identities".
So if you really look at it she's already vested some time in reasearching you so I think it's a safe guess she was researching being a little more than friends.
Her response was "Lex Luethor. That's you!" so she wants you to know she know's and how she found you. The IM wasn't "your a pig" or "you disgust me Lex Luether" etc. She reveled she knows your alter ego, but hasn't given any repulsed indication thus far.
As everyone said your not a s.o.b. so you have nothing to fear from what she read. From what's been stated I don't see much to fear.
Let's not forget that woman like good sex too. If there's one thing that this "hobby" has enhanced my knowledge of it's how to please a woman. So she may just be looking to capitalize on the significant investment you've made into your hobby and bring the knowledge & experience to her.
Geeze thinking about it I think there are a few women here at my office I may drop a sticky note on their desk with my handle.........hmmmmm
Best of luck
And by now has read every single post of yours from when you first signed up to TER to todays
...the moment she traced my secret identity to TER. What's done is done. I think this thread, with the many nice comments, could only help to convince her to spare me.
Thus far it seems as if she might.
gosh the pressure she must be under now that she is the only one that knows the Arch Villan's identity. lol
Such sentiment from a notorious arch super villian. What a wimp. As I write this my head archs back and my home fills with evil laughter. Now that I got that over with, I hope that she spares you too Lex.
...when my balls are in a vice. 
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I wasn't sneaking around--just happened to stumble upon his web site visit history when we were using the same (new) computer for a few days.
(And it wasn't just a couple of visits for curiosity's sake--there were a lot of visits to gay porn; none to hetero porn.)
I never told him or anyone else what I found.
This was a few years ago before employers were cracking down on adult sites at work. I'm sure he no longer surfs adult sites at work so his secret should be safe.
Lex, it is a real shame the co-worker was poking into your personal life. Hopefully she will be a friend to you and drop the subject for both your sakes.
I had a girlfriend who when she came to live with me did everything but take my computer apart into it's component electrons in an effort to find something incriminating
She never found anything but that's the reason why I'm here now in this hobby and she's out of my house
I hope YOU have better luck
In that case, Heartfelt and Deep Heated Welcome! Gonna hafta call you Lois Lane until we learn YOUR secret identity, but congratulations on outwitting one of the criminal geniuses of our notorius underground community. I do so hope we make you comfortable and welcome.
With regrets to Lex (sorry Lex), I pray on his behalf that you make him squirm with delightfully wicked pleasures that end up savoured and shared between just the two of you - sex notwithstanding. Some secrets really do get better for the sharing, and its my hope that if you are as bright as Lex says that you'll be a great addition to the community.
Truly Welcome.
-- Deep 'lurker mode off' Heat
Lex,
What can I say, even superheroes gets their identity unmasked by someone by accident. Since she 'googled' you, she was looking for that elusive connection tying you to Lex.
People tell me I am paranoid in using Aliases here, try letting your SO know about your 'hobby'. Nowadays phone numbers can be googled and I googled mine, it came up with Name AND address! Give out as little info as you can in public for fear of leaving a bread crumb.
She put more than a little effort into finding you, so she must have some interest in you to begin with. Blackmail is illegal in this country btw.
One Time Alias
My name turned up nothing. I like that!
My TER handle turned up only two posts,one being the response to Tina Pink's post above about remembering when she was young.
Educational. I think I'll search on some more of my stuff, and see what I find.
Btw, I used dogpile.com instead of only google.
This only makes me want to get to know you more now!