I'm currently a student in college and don't have a job but had money saved up but just blew through a lot over a short period of time. Really dumb of me.
The other question you have to answer is how much risk can you afford to take. In other words, how blackmail proof are you? What is your risk tolerance?
I would not use LI as I never give my personal info out to anyone in p4p. I am not sure I fully understand how you have the money to see hookers but not have the dough for a membership. That money spent can give you peace of mind.
I don't have any references or the money to spend on membership at the moment but one provider recommended using LinkedIn. Do you guys and providers recommend it and is it safe?
And how much of the LI profile do you have filled out? Rhetorical questions really, but some people have an LI profile with pics, every job they ever had, schools attended, etc. WAY too much info to give out imo.
The other question you have to answer is how much risk can you afford to take. In other words, how blackmail proof are you? What is your risk tolerance?
I would not use LI as I never give my personal info out to anyone in p4p. I am not sure I fully understand how you have the money to see hookers but not have the dough for a membership. That money spent can give you peace of mind.
I'm currently a student in college and don't have a job but had money saved up but just blew through a lot over a short period of time. Really dumb of me.
The other question you have to answer is how much risk can you afford to take. In other words, how blackmail proof are you? What is your risk tolerance?
I would not use LI as I never give my personal info out to anyone in p4p. I am not sure I fully understand how you have the money to see hookers but not have the dough for a membership. That money spent can give you peace of mind.
No it is the only thing I can think of that is even more unsafe than using Facebook for hobbying.
Do not under ANY circumstances use LinkedIn, unless you can afford to have the entire world knowing your business. and this is coming from someone who the entire world already knows that I fuck hookers.
I have one question for you, if you can't afford the paltry sum for a membership, how can you possibly afford to blow the money to see hookers in the first place?
It either means you are getting old and a little slow on the draw or that I have too much free time on my hands. 
I have a budget of spending $250 max by selling a couple of things. I was planning on only doing it once. My first time ever experiencing and using the services. After that I would try to get a gf in college. I only plan on using the services once to get experience because I fear that I would not be good my first time and I will find it weird especially if I keep seeing the person.
I know that no one is perfect their first time but I really don't want to make a fool of myself . So I was hoping I would find a nice and kind enough woman on here that would take the time with me, not necessarily to specifically show me everything, but to allow me to experiment what the adult world holds.
My original plan was to get a hh session for around 150-175 but then someone pointed out that if it's going to be my first time to enjoy it and go for an hour and get a good provider. Other have said to wait for the special someone, which I might end up doing since a lot of money goes into this hobby even though I only plan on doing it once. Don't know how long I would have to wait though. My budget is set at $250 because I don't see myself getting anymore at this current moment and from what I have seen that's the average donation for an hour incall.
So basically I don't have the money for a membership and providers I really only have enough to see a provider once. I could have had enough for both but my addition to online shopping pretty much made me go bankrupt for a while. If I found out about this site earlier I wouldn't have had this problem now. So yeah my budget is only enough for approximately, a one hour session incall with one provider.
Do not under ANY circumstances use LinkedIn, unless you can afford to have the entire world knowing your business. and this is coming from someone who the entire world already knows that I fuck hookers.
I have one question for you, if you can't afford the paltry sum for a membership, how can you possibly afford to blow the money to see hookers in the first place?
If you went belly up from online shopping and you think you'll only do this once you are in denial.
IMO this world is the last thing you need but I seriously doubt you'll listen to me.
Steph
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I know I have a shopping problem but I pretty much bought everything I wanted and I didn't really go bankrupt just used up a bunch of the money I was given for graduating hs. I just want to do this once because my friends keep talking about how they don't on a regular basis especially one who every one thought would be the last one to ever do it did it before I did so I sort of just want to get it it over with but some part of me doesn't. I sort of feel like a scum bag just using this type of service to benefit myself because really I don't feel it's fair for the provider to have a not so fun experience with an inexperienced client. I can wait longer and save up for a membership and a provider the thing is I'm not sure how long it would take me and I have an eye on a couple of providers and I'm afraid by the time I get the donations and membership ready they will no longer offer their services. Another issue is that my college is one of the most anti social colleges of will ever see. I personally would like my first time to be with someone I have feelings for but I have a feelings for but I have a feeling that won't be for a long time and my harmones are raging right now and some clients and provider have given me some really good advice and its really hard for me to control my harmones for some reason right now, hopefully it passes by soon I never had this happen to me before and I hit puberty a long time ago. Anyways I'm going to wait right now but not sure how much longer I can control my harmones for.
IMO this world is the last thing you need but I seriously doubt you'll listen to me.
Steph
You really need to reconsider this whole thing. Literally everything you say is another reason why procuring the services of escorts is going to do nothing but kill what little self esteem you have. I'm only a few years older than you and I can tell you that this is a time in your life when you should be figuring out who you really are, not desperately trying to "catch up" with others. Seriously, dude, give it a couple of years at least. Don't do something you're going to regret.
I thought my first provider was going to be a one time thing but now all i think about is the next time. You what they say, recreational then habitual and then addiction lol
IMO this world is the last thing you need but I seriously doubt you'll listen to me.
Steph
I never use Linkedin and get soooooooo many request to join via friends, etc. I delete those messages each time I see one! I believe it's like "waste book", Its too invasive!
Skip the indy's and look for a reputable agency in your area. You'll want one that has been around for a while, has a history on TER, a nice website with more than just like two girls on there with fuzzy selfies. At this point, you'll have to give your real identity for screening, but if you present yourself as a mature gentleman, you'll probably get approved pretty quickly.
Next, pick the girl who strikes your fancy, but when you're in the door don't burden her with the whole "virgin" thing. Just say you're inexperienced, that you prefer that she leads and you're open to feedback. I'm sure you've seen sex scenes in movies and porn - real sex isn't quite like that, but close enough: stick the hard penis in vagina (let her do the insertion), grind away in any way that feels good (pro tip: go slow with your strokes, not jackrabbit). When you're done, thank her profusely but don't see her again (it was probably a bad lay for her, and you might feel an attachment to your "first").
I still remember how it feels to be young, horny, and desperate to lose it. But frankly, once you lose it your reaction will probably be, "that felt great, but I can't believe I made such a big deal about it!"
and if you have any doubts about the rep of the agency you are thinking about trying, make a post on your local board asking about them, you might have to make it on "shill Friday" as sometimes Admin regards ISO posts that mention a specific provider or agency a "shill post"
Technically, sometimes it's the first time she and I are having sexual contact...
with each other. lol
But when a provider is asking me for this and does not accept any other form of verification, she will most likely hear "sorry I found another provider to see" or some other polite excuse that I can't see her. lol