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I've been trying to contact a specific provider lately but
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It seems strange that she runs hot and cold in our emails. I have tried contacting her a few weeks ahead of the desired appointment only to find she is not in my area at that time.  She seems OK with seeing me, just not at that time.  OK.  When I respond with a request for info as to when she will be available she takes a week to get back to me, by which time I have already made another arrangement.  Politely told her so and told her I'd contact her the following month.  When I do, she initially doesn't respond until I find her calendar update on p411 saying she is out of town again.  Undeterred I email an apology re: not seeing the calendar and she responds immediately by saying sorry, she didn't see my email but gives dates she is in my area.  I respond with a request for an appointment at a specific time on the date specified and she replies that the earliest she can do is 2pm that day.  Since I only hobby in morning or early afternoon that is the latest I can do, so I say so to her and ask for that date and time.  No response. Waited a day.  Emailed her again:are we on or off for x date at x time?  No response now for 2 days.

Ordinarily I'd move on at this point but this gal is highly reviewed, in my area, price range and popular it seems.  I kinda really want to see her.  Any advice?  The date I requested is coming up fast and I don't know if I should contact again, I don't want to bug her.  I am available the next 2 days as well, as is she, but she doesn't know that yet because she responds so slowly there is no dialogue possible.  Is it maybe simply that she's become too popular?  Don't want to name her here.

You should go ahead and email her one last time that you need a confirmation on your date by whatever deadline works for you. I'm guessing that she just can't accommodate your scheduling needs, so you've been bumped down her "reply to" queue. She's just doing a bad job with her business logistics. Sorry it doesn't seem to be working out, but I would just move on and maybe circle back some time down the line.

...any other business, you'd have moved on a long time ago.  Try substituting "best food truck in the world" for "provider" (she, her) in your post and read it again.  Instead of going hungry (horny), go find out when the second best food truck in the world will be in your area and satisfy your needs.

Don't rewards bad businesses with your money.

here in the Wash. DC area. I am not saying that you should keep trying to see her. I am just giving your my example. When I finally did get the appointment and we actually met, she appologized and let me know that she really does not like to see new people. That she did not want to tell me know, but that she was very nervous about seeing me.

...not be able to see for a week, but not to reply within a week is rude.  I reply to all mail within twenty four hours, unless I am out of the country, or on vacation.  If and when this occurs, it is posted in my ads, or my auto reply.  Even when I travel with a gentlemen within the lower 48, he knows that I must quickly check mail twice a day.  

   She might be "all that and more", but I would move on.

Hugs and Kisses,
Kelly

manager.  I know you said she's got what you're looking for, she sounds to me like more trouble than she's worth.  I'm sure there are plenty of other providers around who will fill your needs.

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