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Never knew I had to learn another language to hobby

Joking aside, once the donation is taken care of discretely, you can ask whatever you want.  I think she may mean that you may not discuss menu price

NYLefty2051 reads

I'm brand new to this scene so this may have been discussed before, but...

A provider that I'm very interested in meeting says the following on her web site:
"Never discuss or allude to any sexual acts before or during our date..."

Really?  How would that work?  Say she was giving me a BBBJ and I wanted to switch to doggie.  How would I convey that wish

once she is giving you a bbbj there is a 99.9% chance you are not a cop so then you are able to tell her what you want

Posted By: NYLefty
I'm brand new to this scene so this may have been discussed before, but...  
   
 A provider that I'm very interested in meeting says the following on her web site:  
 "Never discuss or allude to any sexual acts before or during our date..."  
   
 Really?  How would that work?  Say she was giving me a BBBJ and I wanted to switch to doggie.  How would I convey that wish?  
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
 

oh oops my apologies i missed the "during our date" part, never mind what i said then

Posted By: yellowfever1250
once she is giving you a bbbj there is a 99.9% chance you are not a cop so then you are able to tell her what you want  
   
Posted By: NYLefty
I'm brand new to this scene so this may have been discussed before, but...  
     
  A provider that I'm very interested in meeting says the following on her web site:  
  "Never discuss or allude to any sexual acts before or during our date..."  
     
  Really?  How would that work?  Say she was giving me a BBBJ and I wanted to switch to doggie.  How would I convey that wish?    
     
     
     
     
     
     
     
 
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...just plain weird, unless she's talking about an actual dinner date before the private time.

If she really means what she says, she's TSTF.

My guess would be, say the first 10-15 minutes of small-talk when the appointment first starts....some gents will think just because they are there with you now, they can ask anything, and will start asking if you do this, or that...sometimes still completely dressed. Even if he's been screened, these questions when he's just arrived will put anyone on edge....so I think that is what is probably being referred to when she states, "before or during".  

Posted By: BigPapasan
...just plain weird, unless she's talking about an actual dinner date before the private time.

If she really means what she says, she's TSTF.

GaGambler405 reads

I wouldn't read too much into it.

and yes, I agree that talking about sex acts while still fully dressed could definitely put a woman off a bit, and make her think her "date" was actually LE trying to get her to incriminate herself.

Never knew I had to learn another language to hobby

Joking aside, once the donation is taken care of discretely, you can ask whatever you want.  I think she may mean that you may not discuss menu price

I agree, if she actually means that it will be one very awkward date.  Backup plan - move on to someone not so crazy.  :-)

For example: you show up and put the donation down on the table, then immediately start saying things like "sooo what do I get for my money?" or "do you do x, y, and z?" Basically don't walk in and start blatantly soliciting her.  

I assume that's what she means, anyway. I can't imagine that any lady would take issue with you asking for a position change or whatever when you're already engaged in sexual activity.

Posted By: Tobi Telford
For example: you show up and put the donation down on the table, then immediately start saying things like "sooo what do I get for my money?" or "do you do x, y, and z?" Basically don't walk in and start blatantly soliciting her.  
   
 I assume that's what she means, anyway. I can't imagine that any lady would take issue with you asking for a position change or whatever when you're already engaged in sexual activity.
so basicly we kind of said the same thing, once he gets the bj, its pretty likely that he is in the clear and can then tell the provider what he wants (i even said 99.9% chance and not 100%, since its sometimes possible for LE to engage in sexual activity to make an arrest)

however did you get a nasty PM telling you off for giving wrong info?
angry angry people on this site i tell ya

 


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Posted By: yellowfever1250
 
Posted By: Tobi Telford
For example: you show up and put the donation down on the table, then immediately start saying things like "sooo what do I get for my money?" or "do you do x, y, and z?" Basically don't walk in and start blatantly soliciting her.    
     
  I assume that's what she means, anyway. I can't imagine that any lady would take issue with you asking for a position change or whatever when you're already engaged in sexual activity.
   
 so basicly we kind of said the same thing, once he gets the bj, its pretty likely that he is in the clear and can then tell the provider what he wants (i even said 99.9% chance and not 100%, since its sometimes possible for LE to engage in sexual activity to make an arrest)  
   
 however did you get a nasty PM telling you off for giving wrong info?  
 angry angry people on this site i tell ya  
   
   
 

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No, but I didn't give inaccurate info. You did. People on this site aren't angry at all, it's just not helpful when inexperienced people dish out inaccurate advice to newbies.  

Here's the issue with the advice you gave: cops CAN engage in sexual activity whilst operating undercover. If a brand new lady came on here and took what you said as gospel, she could very easily end up getting arrested or worse. So I can certainly understand where the person who PMed you was coming from.

really i gave bad advice? ....................again?

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