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In the beginning I put up with some attitude even tho it was bad vibe
Blowing Chunks 340 reads
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I'd say maybe 90% of the time,  a girl with a shitty attitude never got a repeat visit from me.  So now I trust my guts and simply move on to the next girl if we cant neutralize and become cool with In a reasonable time. There are many gorgeous girls out there and your  money is best spent on a session that works out great.  

Chemistry exists for a reason.  

Exception to the above would be a girl who got really bitchy at me during the session over a misunderstanding, she started crying and shit too. Never had this happen from someone in the high end price range. I felt we were done, I still had the cash with me and nearly walked out.  

I literally had my cloths and shoes back on and was at the door telling her she needs to get her act together and that I didn't come here to pay for her drama bullshit. But we eventually kissed and made up. She even invited me to have drinks with her off the clock after the session several times.  She turned out to be a very nice girl who was just having a really bad day that day.  

So,  to contradict my earlier paragraph, exceptions to the initial "vibe" do exist too. ROFLMA

I have some questions for hobbyists relating to your instincts about a provider.  Suppose you find a new provider and make a call to set something up.  If you get either a good or bad vibe from her, how accurate would you say it was in determining how your date went with her?  (By vibe, I mean just your initial impressions of her based on your initial discussions, and her attitude toward you. She could sound rude on the phone for instance, or just doesn't seem to come across friendly)  Are there many times where you get an initial bad vibe and decide to see her anyway and have a great time with her?  Or how about if you get a good vibe from her but the date was disappointing? How much stock do you put in your "vibe", even though it might be just a short phone conversation? If you find a provider with great reviews, do you put less importance on your impressions?

I'd say maybe 90% of the time,  a girl with a shitty attitude never got a repeat visit from me.  So now I trust my guts and simply move on to the next girl if we cant neutralize and become cool with In a reasonable time. There are many gorgeous girls out there and your  money is best spent on a session that works out great.  

Chemistry exists for a reason.  

Exception to the above would be a girl who got really bitchy at me during the session over a misunderstanding, she started crying and shit too. Never had this happen from someone in the high end price range. I felt we were done, I still had the cash with me and nearly walked out.  

I literally had my cloths and shoes back on and was at the door telling her she needs to get her act together and that I didn't come here to pay for her drama bullshit. But we eventually kissed and made up. She even invited me to have drinks with her off the clock after the session several times.  She turned out to be a very nice girl who was just having a really bad day that day.  

So,  to contradict my earlier paragraph, exceptions to the initial "vibe" do exist too. ROFLMA

Epsilon_Eridani276 reads

all will guide me to make the right decision.  

That comes with experience. there's no book out there that teaches you that sort of thing.  

Typically, I steer away from new people due to lack of "history".  

Over time, you will gain the necessary knowledge to make the right decision from those vibes that come you way.
 

Posted By: ron56789
I have some questions for hobbyists relating to your instincts about a provider.  Suppose you find a new provider and make a call to set something up.  If you get either a good or bad vibe from her, how accurate would you say it was in determining how your date went with her?  (By vibe, I mean just your initial impressions of her based on your initial discussions, and her attitude toward you. She could sound rude on the phone for instance, or just doesn't seem to come across friendly)  Are there many times where you get an initial bad vibe and decide to see her anyway and have a great time with her?  Or how about if you get a good vibe from her but the date was disappointing? How much stock do you put in your "vibe", even though it might be just a short phone conversation? If you find a provider with great reviews, do you put less importance on your impressions?

Chemistry starts once the door opens.

Vibes consist mostly of the skills the gal has at establishing some kind of connection with the guy through phone calls or emails.  Most gals are quite good at that.

I only recall one instance where I had some misgivings about seeing a gal because she sounded to unstable over the phone; but when we met everything was fine.  In fact, we became quite close and did many an overnight.

On the other hand I recall setting up a date that seemed like everything would be fine, but she and I did not click at all.

So, don't put too much faith in the vibes.  

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