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Re: First thing you should do is stop describing Latina as being a
NassauLion93 527 reads
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Sorry again my last message was confusing to me. What I mean is that her TER profile says she's white and her BP says Irish so that checks out, but then her website says Latina and that doesn't match. Now that doesn't mean there aren't white Latinas. It's more of a consistency flaw to me, unless she's mixed then it would make sense. Sorry again for the misunderstanding.

NassauLion932075 reads

To make things short, I'm a 19 year old virgin and recently my hormones have been going crazy. I've posted threads before and some providers have texted me their opinions. Some say I should wait for the right girl because its better to do it with someone you like. Others say all that special someone is bs. I've been searching for a provider for a really long time now and I've had no luck. Some have pointed out that its because of my age and providers are afraid that people within my age are immature. They have also suggested to find providers within my age group.  

     I found this one provider which is perfect within my price range, preference(appearance). I have contacted her and I only found two flaws. One, she is listed as white on TER and on her BP ad it says Irish but on her website she is listed as Latina. The second flaw is that she adds a smiley face after every text, not sure if she is really friendly or "too" friendly. Anyways if this provider is legit she is perfect. If you guys and providers could do me a favor and give me you opinion on her I would really appreciate it. Thank you. Providers and clients have warned me to stay away from providers with less than five reviews and she recently got her fifth review. I will post her link, and Edie if you read this and I offend you in away I'm sorry I'm just trying to be cautious since it's my first time every using services and the "other thing".  

    So clients and providers what do you think I should do?

I'm so sorry, I didn't mean Latina as a flaw. The way I meant it to be is that her BP ad says Irish but then her website says Latina. I'm very sorry for the confusion.

Posted By: BigPapasan[/username

Sorry again my last message was confusing to me. What I mean is that her TER profile says she's white and her BP says Irish so that checks out, but then her website says Latina and that doesn't match. Now that doesn't mean there aren't white Latinas. It's more of a consistency flaw to me, unless she's mixed then it would make sense. Sorry again for the misunderstanding.

Epsilon_Eridani394 reads

at least 3 times.

The flaw he was referring to was not the race card thing, the flaw was the confusion between the ad and her website describing her ethnic background.

the newbie wasn't being racist, but you were being judgmental due to your lack of comprehension of the post.
 

Posted By: BigPapasan
Re: First thing you should do is stop describing Latina as being a "flaw."

Wow. I've been away for a while, and it's worse than ever. DV, you are excused for not realizing that Big Papa was just fucking with you, I suppose...

So the new TER rule is that if you want to post something that is teasing, sarcastic, or some other form of dry humor, you have to include a big douchey smiley face so that the slowest of the slow can realize that it's not necessarily a straightforward, serious comment.

I'm trying to imagine Swift's Modest Proposal written with :D and :-) and ;-) all over the document...

OK number of reviews, and her reviewers have a decent number of reviews also.

Her scores are just mid-range, but then again she's not too expensive either.

Give her a shot.

And believe me, there are a lot worse things about a provider than she uses too many smiley faces.

8o)

Thank you, I'll give her a shot. But do you think I should wait for her to have more reviews or just go for it? About the smiley thing I'm just super paranoid about LE and I kept thinking it was too friendly especially after every text. Do providers do that and am I being too paranoid?

Posted By: mrfisher
OK number of reviews, and her reviewers have a decent number of reviews also.

Her scores are just mid-range, but then again she's not too expensive either.

Give her a shot.

And believe me, there are a lot worse things about a provider than she uses too many smiley faces.  

8o)

he's get ribbed by his fellows if he did.

But, you never know.

5-6 reviews is the bare threshold for most guys, but I think it's OK.  Each of us has their own feelings.

If you are reticent, then by all means hold off and find someone with more reviews.  There's no point in paying to do this hobby if we are not fully enjoying ourselves.

It's totally  your call my young friend but I would wait for a girlfriend. You'll enjoy it more. I know it feels as if you are going crazy but you are not. You are normal. :)  And you won't die if you aren't laid before you are 21. (and don't believe what you see in the movies or in the media--there are a gazillion of 19-year old virgins in the world. You are not alone.  :) )  

 If eventually you come to the conclusion it's taking too long, I would suggest you save your money and avoid the Backpage like the plague that it is--find a TER well reviewed upscale provider who doesn't use Backpage. I agree with the above poster who said the one you have your eye on is likely legit but I still just don't trust anything I see on Backpage. (Go ask a poor sap whose name is now on exposedjohns.com what he thinks of Backpage.)   And get a hotel at a nice, decent hotel and hire an upscale provider who does outcall. Your first time should not be in a seedy motel with a "Hurry-up, let's get this over with" provider who wants you gone asap.  

Just my advice. Take it or leave it. And good luck.

If you were ready to do this, you'd have done it by now.  

I agree with Drapp.  You have posted here many times and also to the NY board many times.  Your hormones may be raging but don't worry: NORMAL!!  but we all got through it.  

We use the expression, "Think with your big head, not your little head." As you acknowledge, you seem to be thinking with your hormones now.  Calm down.  When you're ready for "this" or the real world experience, it will happen.  

... and then you'll be back with more DesperateFirstTimer stories questions.

Chill.
 

Posted By: StephenDrapp
It's totally  your call my young friend but I would wait for a girlfriend. You'll enjoy it more. I know it feels as if you are going crazy but you are not. You are normal. :)  And you won't die if you aren't laid before you are 21. (and don't believe what you see in the movies or in the media--there are a gazillion of 19-year old virgins in the world. You are not alone.  :) )  
   
  If eventually you come to the conclusion it's taking too long, I would suggest you save your money and avoid the Backpage like the plague that it is--find a TER well reviewed upscale provider who doesn't use Backpage. I agree with the above poster who said the one you have your eye on is likely legit but I still just don't trust anything I see on Backpage. (Go ask a poor sap whose name is now on exposedjohns.com what he thinks of Backpage.)   And get a hotel at a nice, decent hotel and hire an upscale provider who does outcall. Your first time should not be in a seedy motel with a "Hurry-up, let's get this over with" provider who wants you gone asap.    
   
 Just my advice. Take it or leave it. And good luck.

Thank you that is really good advice. Thank you.

Posted By: StephenDrapp
It's totally  your call my young friend but I would wait for a girlfriend. You'll enjoy it more. I know it feels as if you are going crazy but you are not. You are normal. :)  And you won't die if you aren't laid before you are 21. (and don't believe what you see in the movies or in the media--there are a gazillion of 19-year old virgins in the world. You are not alone.  :) )  
   
  If eventually you come to the conclusion it's taking too long, I would suggest you save your money and avoid the Backpage like the plague that it is--find a TER well reviewed upscale provider who doesn't use Backpage. I agree with the above poster who said the one you have your eye on is likely legit but I still just don't trust anything I see on Backpage. (Go ask a poor sap whose name is now on exposedjohns.com what he thinks of Backpage.)   And get a hotel at a nice, decent hotel and hire an upscale provider who does outcall. Your first time should not be in a seedy motel with a "Hurry-up, let's get this over with" provider who wants you gone asap.    
   
 Just my advice. Take it or leave it. And good luck.

at edie for a while but havent decided to take the plunge

but i noticed something fishy

http://newyork.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/naughty-petite-college-redhead-jess-come-and-realize-your-girl-next-door-fantasy-review-255428-21/48975073  

http://newyork.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/tall-and-petite-irish-blonde-college-cutie-edie-sexy-fun-during-summer-break-review-id-258385-22/49995780

this girl and edie have the same EXACT wording in their ads  
is that even something of concern or am i just paranoid?


-- Modified on 8/22/2014 12:26:04 PM

Nice find, I have seen and messaged Jess before too and something didn't feel right. I emailed Jess and she told me the info and sent 2 pics not found online but replied to my name in my email which was different from my name I used when I wrote to her, maybe she just assumed my email name was mine. The addresses given are a 6 min drive away. Are they part of some agency?

Posted By: yellowfever1250
at edie for a while but havent decided to take the plunge  
   
 but i noticed something fishy  
   
 http://newyork.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/naughty-petite-college-redhead-jess-come-and-realize-your-girl-next-door-fantasy-review-255428-21/48975073  
   
 http://newyork.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/tall-and-petite-irish-blonde-college-cutie-edie-sexy-fun-during-summer-break-review-id-258385-22/49995780  
   
 this girl and edie have the same EXACT wording in their ads  
 is that even something of concern or am i just paranoid?  
 

-- Modified on 8/22/2014 12:26:04 PM

I had one girl copy my entire TER ad verbatim, she just replaced little details like my name/height/measurements with her own. It's a pretty common occurrence.

...whitelisted by a provider with 659 reviews.  That tells me he's a legitimate hobbyist so if he wasn't busted, you won't be either.

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