I actually heard back from her. She did indeed push back her tour one month because too many people decided to cancel.
I am scheduled for a rendezvous this weekend with a very well reviewed provider. I looked at her calender on her website yesterday and it indicated that she would be in her home city instead of the city that we are supposed to meet in. Maybe her calender was changed by accident? I emailed her about last night to ask if something came up that would keep her from making the date. I know that it may take her a while to respond, especially if something less than pleasant happened.
Given that the city is no longer on her calender, do you think it is safe to assume the rendezvous is not going to happen? How long should I keep that day open if I continue to not hear back from her? She will probably get back to me sometime soon, but I am just a little anxious because I was looking forward to it. I realize things can come up and detour your plans. So I wouldn't be upset if it is canceled, just disappointed if we didn't get to meet.
Since my hometown market is so small, providers often are unable to pre-book enough appointments to make the trip worthwhile so they cancel. But when that happens, in my experience, if I've already pre-booked I'll receive an email apologizing for the cancellation. But it sounds like you're in limbo, not knowing. I hate that!
Just hope I hear back soon to get confirmation one way or the other. according to her calender she will be in her home city for the next month, then begin a tour starting with the city that we were going to meet in. Unfortunately, I do not think I will be able to rebook when she now plans on making the trip. Her tour will be during the week and I would only be able to book on the weekend because the city is actually a bit of a drive for me. I guess I'll just have check her schedule periodically, maybe she will make a weekend visit in a couple months.
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to see if she has emailed you?
Yes, I have checked every folder in my email including the trash in case it got accidentally deleted. I think I will email my references to get the okay to use them again before I go to bed. Then If I haven't heard back from her by the time I my references reply, I will line something else up. I wanna hold out as long as possible though for the off chance that our plans are still good. Maybe it would be easier to try and book one of my references. However, I'm still in my "kid in a candy store" phase and would prefer to see someone new.
I hope I still hear back from her regardless. I would definitely be willing to book again if our schedules line up. Like they say though, There's plenty of fish out there.
I only found out when I checked the ad board for the particular state, and she said she was cancelling her tour for that state. I wouldn't have known if I hadn't been checking ads.
A very well-reviewed, well-scored provider, too.
I actually heard back from her. She did indeed push back her tour one month because too many people decided to cancel.