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There is a category for "Escort and Anal" in the cost of service section...
xyz23 45 Reviews 386 reads
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...of the profile but that isn't something you can ask TER to include, (you can use "contact us" to ask TER about this). It's something your reviewers indicate when filling out the info for their review of you. However many providers offer anal and charge extra for it without it being noted on their profile. They state the extra cost in their ads and on their site.  You asked above about just not putting these extra services on your profile after all. No need to leave them off just make sure the extra fee is stated where it can be easily found. (I mentioned anal because you brought it up in your response to wymenlover.) My suggestion is have those services in your profile. Put them in your P411 profile too if they aren't already there.

Now in his (wymenlover) defense you are on the Newbie board asking this. It's not inconceivable that he wouldn't know about your experience. I didn't. His assuming things based on your profile and reviews here is understandable. Quite often newbies ask questions that aren't quite on target for what they actually want and need to know. Those of us that answer sometimes guess at what information might be useful in an effort to cover all possibilities. We are glad to help here on the Newbie Board. I took his post in that manner. He was trying to help. Seems to me you need to cut him some slack

Katie_krush2041 reads

I was wondering about adding certain services to my profile, that I would charge extra for...do I just add them? What if guys assume that they're included? Basically, how do I add these services on my profile and also let guys know that there is an extra fee (and what exactly that fee is)??
Thank you

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OnlyLiveTwice487 reads

You could just add a note on your Services page, saying the following activities can be discussed after initial contact. And then give the list, one activity per line?

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xyz23408 reads

...You can contact TER to have them note on your profile that you offer those services. Then you would need to make it clear on your web site and in any ads you put up that those services are extra. Hopefully your reviewers would began to note in their reviews that a certain service they received was extra.

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palomamontecarlo394 reads

It is a red flag, the newbie self center has acronyms that you can use, also reviews sometimes state that you need to be tipped to offer "x", remember, no explicit language anywhere...

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Katie_krush382 reads

ok, so just leave those services off of my TER profile?

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xyz23387 reads

...of the profile but that isn't something you can ask TER to include, (you can use "contact us" to ask TER about this). It's something your reviewers indicate when filling out the info for their review of you. However many providers offer anal and charge extra for it without it being noted on their profile. They state the extra cost in their ads and on their site.  You asked above about just not putting these extra services on your profile after all. No need to leave them off just make sure the extra fee is stated where it can be easily found. (I mentioned anal because you brought it up in your response to wymenlover.) My suggestion is have those services in your profile. Put them in your P411 profile too if they aren't already there.

Now in his (wymenlover) defense you are on the Newbie board asking this. It's not inconceivable that he wouldn't know about your experience. I didn't. His assuming things based on your profile and reviews here is understandable. Quite often newbies ask questions that aren't quite on target for what they actually want and need to know. Those of us that answer sometimes guess at what information might be useful in an effort to cover all possibilities. We are glad to help here on the Newbie Board. I took his post in that manner. He was trying to help. Seems to me you need to cut him some slack

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Katie_krush435 reads

Hm ok thank you!
And, I mean perhaps he had good intentions. But my first reaction was to get heated, because I don't think guys should be eluding to the suggestion that cim (or anything really) is something we should do. I mean it's not their mouths the cock is going in, so that offends me.  So when I'm offended, the bitchy Katie gets unleashed lol.
Well anyways I'm happy to be here and thanks everyone for your responses:)
 

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...of the profile but that isn't something you can ask TER to include, (you can use "contact us" to ask TER about this). It's something your reviewers indicate when filling out the info for their review of you. However many providers offer anal and charge extra for it without it being noted on their profile. They state the extra cost in their ads and on their site.  You asked above about just not putting these extra services on your profile after all. No need to leave them off just make sure the extra fee is stated where it can be easily found. (I mentioned anal because you brought it up in your response to wymenlover.) My suggestion is have those services in your profile. Put them in your P411 profile too if they aren't already there.  
   
 Now in his (wymenlover) defense you are on the Newbie board asking this. It's not inconceivable that he wouldn't know about your experience. I didn't. His assuming things based on your profile and reviews here is understandable. Quite often newbies ask questions that aren't quite on target for what they actually want and need to know. Those of us that answer sometimes guess at what information might be useful in an effort to cover all possibilities. We are glad to help here on the Newbie Board. I took his post in that manner. He was trying to help. Seems to me you need to cut him some slack.  
   
 
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xyz23390 reads

...I see him saying it is among the things you don't do already based on your profile, therefore it might have been one of the things he thought you could be considering adding and charging more for it. No where did he say you should do CIM. Even in his last paragraph he didn't say you should he only offered information for you to consider if CIM was something you were contemplating as a service for added fee. If you think he was saying you should do CIM then you have to think he also said you should do bbbj. He discussed it about as much as he did CIM and in the same way yet you don't mention that.

I admit I'm extrapolating some here but whether I'm right or wrong about that I'm certain that nowhere in his reply did he say you should do or add CIM.

 
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Katie_krush414 reads

I didn't say he said that I"should do it". I said "eluding to the suggestion". You'll see those words clearly in my post. I don't think it's for guys to "suggest". It's just me. I'm sure it's not a big deal to some women, I Just get sensitive about it when guys make suggestions concerning my services. I feel it's not really their place.  
But, no problem. Was just standing up for myself cuz I'm not naive and I felt patronized. But I get that you guys are trying to help and that's nice. Again I just didn't ask for the given advice, so felt a little awkward about that. But it's fine.

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WymenLover574 reads

Some of us will not bother contacting gals whose "menus" look like those in a Chinese restaurant.

And, we don't want to be asked after you open the door, "would you like 'fries' with that?"

What services are there for you to add besides bbbj, cim, and anal?  If you think your clients will accept 350 or whatever for your giving BBBJ/cim, then try it.  The only way to know what your market is will be to "tinker" with your pricing, but I suggest your price have bbbj included.  I have never seen a provider who has specified an add-on for bbbj.

Almost every gal asks more for anal because of preparation time so it makes sense to specify an add-on for that service.

Good luck.  You have a good start here; and, providing bbbj will entitle you to receive an additional point in your performance score.

(P.S.  Since you mention cim in a thread below:  I have been with several gals over 45 who are long-term providers of cim, most of whom swallow.  I have asked about their STD experience.  They have told me they have always been negative; I have known them long enough that I have no reason to question their truthfulness.)



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Katie_krush396 reads

Lol. Sweetie. I think you misunderstood my post, because it was actually a technical question about how this particular site operates...i wasn't asking for your opinion, and certainly not about which services I should offer. ...in fact, my OP didn't mention any specifics about the services I had in mind, because again, that was not my point.  
     But now that you brought it up, did you ever think that maybe I am planning on including bbbj and adding Greek, which is exactly what you assumed I wasn't doing but seemed to suggest I should do? Lol. Now don't you see how silly you just made yourself look?
     Look, sweetie, thank you for trying to help, but truthfully, it's just not needed. The fact that I didn't ask should have been your first clue. I have been providing, full-time, for over 2 years. I had over 100 stellar reviews (6 pages) on what some people call "the old site". (Heard of it?) I am more than qualified to run my own business without your opinions on my services.  With all due respect,  it really is not your place. After all, I am the one who is creating and building my own business. Not only that, but I'm damn good at it, thank you very much. If you need an outlet for your opinions, then you can ho out too. Then we'll see how much more you know about this work than me. Lol.
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Posted By: WymenLover
Some of us will not bother contacting gals whose "menus" look like those in a Chinese restaurant.  
   
 And, we don't want to be asked after you open the door, "would you like 'fries' with that?"  
   
 What services are there for you to add besides bbbj, cim, and anal?  If you think your clients will accept 350 or whatever for your giving BBBJ/cim, then try it.  The only way to know what your market is will be to "tinker" with your pricing, but I suggest your price have bbbj included.  I have never seen a provider who has specified an add-on for bbbj.  
   
 Almost every gal asks more for anal because of preparation time so it makes sense to specify an add-on for that service.  
   
 Good luck.  You have a good start here; and, providing bbbj will entitle you to receive an additional point in your performance score.  
   
 (P.S.  Since you mention cim in a thread below:  I have been with several gals over 45 who are long-term providers of cim, most of whom swallow.  I have asked about their STD experience.  They have told me they have always been negative; I have known them long enough that I have no reason to question their truthfulness.)  
   
 

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Charlie Tweeder355 reads

that fact that you just blasted that dude, or the fact that you modified your post 4 times to ensure that your words blasted him in the way you intended.

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