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You keep telling yourself that Paloma if it makes you feel better
GaGambler 537 reads
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but PLEASE, quit spreading that bullshit around to the noobs. Some of them are liable to actually believe you.

NO, not all providers delete your information, one of the main reasons being convenience for both of you. If a provider did indeed destroy all of your info, she would have no idea who you were if and when you were to contact her again, and would have to go through the screening process all over again. This is just one of the reasons the ladies keep your info. There are other, less honorable reasons for keeping your info as well, but this is just one of the legitimate reasons for doing so.

and PLEASE, lets stop with the "we offer companionship, nothing else" We all know why we are here, and so does LE, and at least LE requires proof before acting, a jealous spouse doesn't need proof, the mere allegation is enough to ruin a marriage or end a career. There is no "statute of limitations" where it comes to being "outed"

Soldjur672126 reads

So I'm still researching to find a first provider, but still nervous about the hobby. I've seen a lot of questions about stings etc., but what about after the service? Is there any concern about LE after the fact - days, weeks, months after a visit? Thanks all.

JackDunphy685 reads

Thats why I avoid agencies like the plague. Many instances of agency client lists being made public. Happened to a Florida and Arizona based company not all that long ago. There was a major bust in Long Island NY last year where the johns names were outed.

But the odds of this happening to you is incredibly small with a well reviewed Indy provider. To some here, the LE risk and the media risk (i.e. your name ends up in the paper) are one and the same.  

It wont matter too much to your SO or employer if you are found not guilty, or not arrested to begin with, but still manage to get on a prostitution agency's client list. For many, thats all it will take to ruin their lives.

as in Clinton.   Deny, deny, deny and eventually people will maybe believe you or just won't  care.

may be helpful for you to read about it, protect yourself also by seeing well reviewed and established providers.. we do not store your info, be careful on phone, text or email interactions, remember, we offer companionship, nothing else :)

JackDunphy492 reads

Honestly Paloma, when will you learn? MANY providers keep a johns info. So cut this whole "WE do not store your info" bullshit.

Maybe YOU dont, but again, many, many girls do. Unless you feel that all the guys here that have said a girl has outed them/blackmailed them are liars

GaGambler538 reads

but PLEASE, quit spreading that bullshit around to the noobs. Some of them are liable to actually believe you.

NO, not all providers delete your information, one of the main reasons being convenience for both of you. If a provider did indeed destroy all of your info, she would have no idea who you were if and when you were to contact her again, and would have to go through the screening process all over again. This is just one of the reasons the ladies keep your info. There are other, less honorable reasons for keeping your info as well, but this is just one of the legitimate reasons for doing so.

and PLEASE, lets stop with the "we offer companionship, nothing else" We all know why we are here, and so does LE, and at least LE requires proof before acting, a jealous spouse doesn't need proof, the mere allegation is enough to ruin a marriage or end a career. There is no "statute of limitations" where it comes to being "outed"

that LE can do is publish your name.  The damage will be done to you re your job, your SO, and family.  Since they didn't catch you in the act, there is little else they can do to you.  However, the public outing will cause enough problems for you.

And guys, please no more bashing on this thread.  While I agree with you, Jack and GaG, the point has been made.  Please keep any more posts on this thread as answers to the OP.

Thanks,
Swim

GaGambler385 reads

Is to correct the bad advice given to him previously.

Even in your post you point out that once outed, for most people the damage has already been done, This needs to be addressed for the safety of the noobs. No one did any "bashing" here, we simply corrected some very bad advice and looked out for our newbie brothers.

Swim, you know "bashing" when you see it, and you know both Jack and I are perfectly capable of bashing if we did not respect the rules here, but nothing we said came anywhere close to bashing and quite frankly it needed to be said. So needed in fact that you felt the need to repeat what we said yourself.

You're right.  It wasn't really bashing Paloma, and both of you did answer the guy's question.  He did need to know the truth, and anyone who believes that all providers don't keep info on their clients is in la-la land. Thanks and keep up the good work here.

Swi

GaGambler389 reads

but in deference to your wishes, AND TER rules, I will refrain from bashing the OP in the thread above us, but boy am I tempted. lol

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