Newbie - FAQ

Bubblehorse, you might want to also post on the ISO Board....
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...or your local Board, that you are looking for a newbie friendly lady.  If you post under an alias, you might not receive replies.

  Good luck and have fun!

Hugs and Kisses,
Kelly

Okay, it's the age old dilemma : You can't see a provider unless you have a reference, but you can't get a reference unless you see a provider.

Classic Catch-22!

Just like you can't get a job without experience, but you can't get experience unless you have a job! Arrhhhg!!!  :(

Here is my dilemma -- the "agency" I last worked with doesn't give out references and my other past providers have disappeared or can't be reached.  I'm not a regular hobbyist, having been gone from it for awhile.  

So how does one get back in the game???

I understand the need for caution, but at the same time it's quite frustrating for those of us in similar situations like mine.  I would gladly scan and email my driver's license if that's what it took (it that's not a show of trust I don't know what is!).

Finally, whenever I've heard of LE being involved in the trade it's usually a case of the "provider" turning out to be LE rather than the "john."  In fact, didn't most cities stop LE from acting as "johns" because too many wound having actual sex?  Boys will be boys, right? ;)   Just putting that out there for perspective.  

Thanks all

join p411 or some other verification site or see newbie friendly providers :D

Join a verification site, and go from there. Fine out which site is most popular in your area.

Regarding LE: I have no idea where you are getting your facts. If you are talking about street walkers, you might have a point. But in the internet world, it is easier for LE to bust the ladies (respond to their ads).

...or your local Board, that you are looking for a newbie friendly lady.  If you post under an alias, you might not receive replies.

  Good luck and have fun!

Hugs and Kisses,
Kelly

It is quite easy to join P411. They will do their own employment verification process and everything that comes with due diligence.  

Personally, I don't think you will have a problem getting in touch with reputable providers. Look for a newbie friendly provider and merely provide your employment information and full information. The following is what I look for:

1. Full legal name
2. City/State that is on your drivers license.  

With this information, I am able to do a full background check. I would then use employment information to verify that a client really is who he claims to be. I either call (with an alibi that you choose) and/or send an email to a work email address from a discreet email address.  

 

Posted By: bubbleshorse
Okay, it's the age old dilemma : You can't see a provider unless you have a reference, but you can't get a reference unless you see a provider.  
   
 Classic Catch-22!  
   
 Just like you can't get a job without experience, but you can't get experience unless you have a job! Arrhhhg!!!  :(  
   
 Here is my dilemma -- the "agency" I last worked with doesn't give out references and my other past providers have disappeared or can't be reached.  I'm not a regular hobbyist, having been gone from it for awhile.    
   
 So how does one get back in the game???  
   
 I understand the need for caution, but at the same time it's quite frustrating for those of us in similar situations like mine.  I would gladly scan and email my driver's license if that's what it took (it that's not a show of trust I don't know what is!).  
   
 Finally, whenever I've heard of LE being involved in the trade it's usually a case of the "provider" turning out to be LE rather than the "john."  In fact, didn't most cities stop LE from acting as "johns" because too many wound having actual sex?  Boys will be boys, right? ;)   Just putting that out there for perspective.  
   
 Thanks all!  
   
   
   
   
   
 

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