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First time should be somebody you care about
ram55 221 reads
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You're 19, what's the rush.   OK, you feel like your're going to explode if you don't get laid. I remember that feeling well.   But without sounding like a romantic dreamer, it'll mean a lot more to you if it's someone who at least cares about you. You don't have to be in love with her or vice-versa.   But even the nicest professional ladies are only doing this because YOU pay them.   And having sex with a person who has sex with lots of men does mean a higher risk of contacting an STD, some of which stay with you for life.  Sure, that could happen with a non-pro, but the odds are less.   And wear a condum, no matter what. And learn HOW to wear and use condums first.  

OK forum, tear me apart now.

NassauLion931888 reads

Ok so I have asked this question three times and some guys where nice enough to recommend a couple of providers but it hasn't really helped much so I'm going to try to be very specific on what I'm looking for and I really hope someone could help me out. I'm going to divide it up into different sections.  

What my issue is.
- I'm a 19 year old virgin and I sort of want to lose it but at the same time I don't want to.
- I can pretty much find a girlfriend but I don't want to because I will feel weird if I ever do have sex with her and I don't know how it feels after you have it for the first time and you keep seeing the same person everyday so I'm just trying to avoid that. I just want to see a provider so I can get some experience.  
-I have only kissed and hugged with a girl and have never had anything else such as a HJ or Bj.

What I'm looking for.
- I'm trying to find a provider within NY preferably Long island that would allow MSOG/ multiple pops.
- I'm just looking to experiment right now, I sort of want a GFE right now without intercourse, as if the moment.
-My max budget right now is around $250 from what I've been told that's pretty low but I'm only looking for about HH or how ever long it takes to pop around 3 times, after I pop the first time I'm pretty much ready to go again.

     I also don't have any subscription to any site to be verified or anything because I'm not looking to spend that much money and I am only going to do this one time and then I will try to get a girlfriend in college after I get some sort of experience because from what I've read about first timers they pop within seconds and if they even make it inside they don't last 2 minutes.

     If any one can help me please let me know, I currently have a basic membership so I can't see any messages so If you have any providers you can recommend please post them here and if it's not safe to do that send me an email my email is james(underline)navas at aol(dot)com.  

Here's additional info on what my preference is it doesn't matter but if you could find one that matches it would be perfect.
White with blonde hair
White with natural red/orange hair
White with black hair and blue eye

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swimtrekr473 reads

1. your age will be a problem for many providers
2. with no experience, and therefore no provider references, you should consider joining one or more of the verification sites.
3.  250 is not really low unless you are looking in NYC, then you have a problem
4.  you need to pony up for VIP membership here so you can do some research
5.  3 pops in 30 minutes, think you are over-estimating yourself, even at your age.  if you are a virgin, how do you know you can pop 3 times in 30 minutes?
5. as far as your preferences go, get VIP and search reviews in your area.

Good luck,
Swim

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NassauLion93384 reads

Yeah some providers said it will be hard for me to meet someone and have suggested looking for someone around my age. What verification site do you recommend? I've done my research and they seem legit but I get very paranoid and then I'm like there's no way this girl can be real, for some reason. Lol I've popped numerous times with an hour don't know how but I think as time goes on and I get more experience I will lose that ability, it probably happens now because of my hormones. I've seen reviews on here and some of the reviews say the same things for some girls, so I'm not sure which one to trust even after doing research on other review sites. From what I've seen P411 is really good, and thank you for replying. I have been warned to stay away from BP and I have but what are your thoughts on this provider, I'll post the link. You don't have to do any research I just want to know what you think at first glance legit or not based on her two reviews, she seems new. I'm thinking of waiting for more reviews. And once again thank you.

Related Link: http://www.theeroticreview.com/reviews/show.asp?id=258385

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swimtrekr348 reads

DateCheck, Preferred411, and RoomService2000.  Not sure about the others, but P411 will work with you to get you verified, but you will be asked to give up some personal info.  However, it's better to give it up once than to several providers.

Also suggest you read the self help center, and get VIP membership here, as I mentioned in my previous post.  As far as the provider you gave the link for, do the research on her, I know of some quality providers that make use of BP, but regardless of where you find a provider, you have to do the research.

Swim

Swim

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NassauLion93356 reads

Thank you for the advice, all of you. I'm not looking for the PSE I want more of a GFE. I said wanted a HH because I feel like 1 hour is too much and a HH would fit me best economically but if I could find full hour one in my budget I would definitely choose that option.

     So like SultrySmarts said HH is not enough for what I want so I guess I'll go for the full hour and pace myself if I ever do meet a provider, the way things are going it might not be for a while since I can't seem to find one especially since sadly I'm being too picky for some reason, I just can't decide with who. I will be perfectly honest with the provider since it's pretty much in my nature to be honest, and I can understand why a provider would not see a 19 year old, I've seen youtube videos of guys disrespecting providers constantly making fun of them and their profession.

     The only reason I'm contemplating on not getting membership anywhere is because I am only going to do this once to get experience and then move on and try in college and it's pretty expensive for me at the moment. Probably not the safest but I confused at the moment. So I will see how everything turns out.

     Thank you swimtreker, SultrySmarts, and yellowfever1250 for you advice on what tot do and how to be careful.

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yellowfever1250390 reads

saw my first provider last week, she was newbie friendly and i told her i was 29(im younger) when i arrived she just said "ure young" but didnt really care just as long as i was 18+, respectful and had the donation

i suggest u browse TER and contact providers asking them if they r newbie friendly and dont say ure 19 lol the only reason providers stay away from youngsters is bc they r immature and more likely to cause problems but like i said upon meeting if u r respectful and have the right donation, age doesnt matter as long as ure 18+

oh and LI rarely has quality providers, i suggest saving up an extra 50 bucks and going to NYC

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yellowfever1250263 reads

i did not tell him to LIE to a provider, i simply said "dont say ure 19" voluntary (of course if they ask thats another thing)  

and yes its true i dont have much experience yet but my intentions were to help and not to deceive anyone as u guys seem to think i am  

and as for me not respecting my first provider(not going to lie this part bugged me), i beg to differ

i treated our date like literally a date, i flossed/mouthwashes/tonguebrushed and i  washed my downtown like no tomorrow and i even trimmed, i even thought about what to wear lol, casual but still well put together, usually the sterotype is providers who r clockwatchers but it was me as i knew she was busy and didnt want to overstay my welcome and in the end i didnt even have time to finish but i still gave her a generous tip and left with a smile

yes it is true i told her i was 29 when i am actually mid 20s but it wasnt to "trick" or "deceive" her, not like i am 18 trying to pass as an 35 yr old, the age i gave and the age i am differs only by a few years, u wouldnt even notice if i didnt tell u, my reasoning wasnt to pass as something i am not but rather more on the lines of being hesitant to give out personal data, just like giving out alias instead of real names, she asked for my name and i gave her my nick name would that be deceiving her as well?  

yes i am unexperienced but some of the things u posted bothered me a little bit and i hope u arent too quick to judge as i intend on being a good member of this community :

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Tobi Telford313 reads

Uhhhh except you said this: "saw my first provider last week, she was newbie friendly and i told her i was 29(im younger)."

That's a dick move, bro. If you pulled that shit with me, I'd throw you out on your ass without a refund.  

If you really intend to be a good member of this community, you're not off to a very good start.  

Posted By: yellowfever1250
i did not tell him to LIE to a provider, i simply said "dont say ure 19" voluntary (of course if they ask thats another thing)  
   
 and yes its true i dont have much experience yet but my intentions were to help and not to deceive anyone as u guys seem to think i am  
   
 and as for me not respecting my first provider(not going to lie this part bugged me), i beg to differ  
   
 i treated our date like literally a date, i flossed/mouthwashes/tonguebrushed and i  washed my downtown like no tomorrow and i even trimmed, i even thought about what to wear lol, casual but still well put together, usually the sterotype is providers who r clockwatchers but it was me as i knew she was busy and didnt want to overstay my welcome and in the end i didnt even have time to finish but i still gave her a generous tip and left with a smile  
   
 yes it is true i told her i was 29 when i am actually mid 20s but it wasnt to "trick" or "deceive" her, not like i am 18 trying to pass as an 35 yr old, the age i gave and the age i am differs only by a few years, u wouldnt even notice if i didnt tell u, my reasoning wasnt to pass as something i am not but rather more on the lines of being hesitant to give out personal data, just like giving out alias instead of real names, she asked for my name and i gave her my nick name would that be deceiving her as well?  
   
 yes i am unexperienced but some of the things u posted bothered me a little bit and i hope u arent too quick to judge as i intend on being a good member of this community :D  
 

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yellowfever1250311 reads

i always see providers or agencies saying the girls r 20 or 21 when really they r 25 or something and i think its acceptable and not a big deal, so when i said i was 29 when im 25.... i really didnt think it was a big deal,like i said im not 18 trying to pass for a 35 year old or something

but hey looks like its frowned upon when clients give a ballpark age, so newb lesson learned, ill be saying im 25 from now on  

Posted By: Tobi Telford
Uhhhh except you said this: "saw my first provider last week, she was newbie friendly and i told her i was 29(im younger)."  
   
 That's a dick move, bro. If you pulled that shit with me, I'd throw you out on your ass without a refund.  
   
 If you really intend to be a good member of this community, you're not off to a very good start.  
   
Posted By: yellowfever1250
i did not tell him to LIE to a provider, i simply said "dont say ure 19" voluntary (of course if they ask thats another thing)    
     
  and yes its true i dont have much experience yet but my intentions were to help and not to deceive anyone as u guys seem to think i am    
     
  and as for me not respecting my first provider(not going to lie this part bugged me), i beg to differ  
     
  i treated our date like literally a date, i flossed/mouthwashes/tonguebrushed and i  washed my downtown like no tomorrow and i even trimmed, i even thought about what to wear lol, casual but still well put together, usually the sterotype is providers who r clockwatchers but it was me as i knew she was busy and didnt want to overstay my welcome and in the end i didnt even have time to finish but i still gave her a generous tip and left with a smile  
     
  yes it is true i told her i was 29 when i am actually mid 20s but it wasnt to "trick" or "deceive" her, not like i am 18 trying to pass as an 35 yr old, the age i gave and the age i am differs only by a few years, u wouldnt even notice if i didnt tell u, my reasoning wasnt to pass as something i am not but rather more on the lines of being hesitant to give out personal data, just like giving out alias instead of real names, she asked for my name and i gave her my nick name would that be deceiving her as well?    
     
  yes i am unexperienced but some of the things u posted bothered me a little bit and i hope u arent too quick to judge as i intend on being a good member of this community :D  
 

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ram55222 reads

You're 19, what's the rush.   OK, you feel like your're going to explode if you don't get laid. I remember that feeling well.   But without sounding like a romantic dreamer, it'll mean a lot more to you if it's someone who at least cares about you. You don't have to be in love with her or vice-versa.   But even the nicest professional ladies are only doing this because YOU pay them.   And having sex with a person who has sex with lots of men does mean a higher risk of contacting an STD, some of which stay with you for life.  Sure, that could happen with a non-pro, but the odds are less.   And wear a condum, no matter what. And learn HOW to wear and use condums first.  

OK forum, tear me apart now.

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