First of all, Whitelists are not a preferred verification source for most providers.  They prefer sites like P411 or Date-Check.  Also, you should not expect any girl who hasn't seen you in years for a reference.  You need to start again at square one.  Sorry, but that's just how it works.

... you need to demonstrate to a provider that you are "safe" to refer to other providers.  At the risk of stating the obvious, the best way to do that is have a session (preferably more than one) with a provider in which you are a gentleman, and act in such a way that the provider has no qualms about telling other providers you are "safe" via a whitelist.  Then you can politely ask the provider to whitelist you.  Most will be glad to do that.  

IMO it's not realistic to expect a provider you last saw (infrequently) two or more years ago to whitelist you.  You can ask, but don't be surprised if they decline.

Perhaps seek out a new lady, make an appointment and then ask her. Better said than done, right?  

There is always a lady to your liking that fits what screening information you can provide.


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i dont see why a provider wouldnt even if it has been 2-3 years as long as u guys left in good terms, i mean.....what did u turn into a thug or LE within 2-3 years or something?

if she would give you a Whitelist referral, assuming you already know she is a TER member.  If it's been more than a few months since you saw her, it's likely that she won't remember you, but it never hurts to ask.  You can also get references and OK's from the verification sites, DateCheck and Preferred411.

Swim

Ask a provider prior to booking if she is open to whitelist you.

I will whitelist a gent after 1 visit if I feel he is respectful fella.