These subjects surface about every six months on this board.  In this cycle they came up in 22meeto2's post, "Squirting," of 4/15/2005-5:49:57 AM.

For anyone interested, following is some stuff I posted a while ago on G-Spot location and stimulation and on squirting.  I'm afraid the posts are a bit clinical, but they should be helpful:


Squirting

Posted by loverofwomen , 5/25/2003 4:43:49 AM

Almost all women can be made to squirt...
The fluid comes from a series of glands known as Skene's Paraurethral Glands, which is a network of glands, ducts, and nerves that surround the urethra, and run to the neck of the bladder.  These structures develop in women from the same embryonic tissue that becomes the prostate in men.

Squirting produces a clear, or faintly milky liquid that's all but tasteless, and has a kind of silky texture.  It's NOT urine, but it comes from the urethra.

Squirting usually accompanies a VERY intense orgasm in women with a high threshold for squirting, and more often in women who are either very orgasmic, or have a lower threshold.

An orgasm produced by manipulation of Grafenburg's Ganglia (or G-spot), is all but always intense enough to cause squirting, but the two phenomena are actually unrelated.  Most women can be made to squirt with any orgasm of sufficient intensity.

I love making a woman squirt, and usually try to get as much in my mouth as I can.  I like to produce a combined orgasm by manipulating the G-spot, while stimulating the clitoris and other structures associated with the vaginal area.  That reminds me.  I have to get more tickets today.  Without giving each girl a number, fights break out on line. (grin)



G-Spot Location

Posted by loverofwomen , 5/26/2003 6:48:37 AM

Grafenburg's ganglia (or G-Spot) is not a myth.  It exists on all women, and it's primary function is thought to be the mitigation of pain during childbirth.  

When properly stimulated, the G-Spot can produce a different type of orgasm from those produced by clitoral stimulation.  These G-Spot orgasms have been described to me as not only more intense than clitoral, but also as having a deeper, whole-body quality, as well as having the potential (when done properly) of lasting well over a minute.  

In addition, G-Spot stimulation can be combined with stimulation of the clitoris, and/or anus to produce a combined, or blended orgasm.  These little beauties have the differing qualities and intensities of each type, all combined.  This is a good way to make lots of new friends.

It's not uncommon for a woman who's had a blended orgasm to pass out for as long as ten seconds (the French call it, "the little death").  This scared the hell out of me the first time it happened.  I also keep facial tissues by both sides of my bed, because I've made several ladies cry.  It's a reaction to the intensity of the release.

One should also be prepared for squirting (see my earlier post on Skene's paraurethral glands).

The G-Spot is located along the upper vaginal wall, behind the pubic bone.  It's (isn't evolution wonderful?) about a finger's distance in.  At that position, the vagina opens out, and forms a notch above and behind the bone.  If you feel around in there, you'll find a spot that feels a little like the roof of your mouth.  Just beyond that area, is a soft, smooth surface.  That's the general location of the G-Spot.

The G-Spot, of course, isn't in exactly the same place in all women, and as always, each woman reacts differently.  Unlike stimulating the clitoris, one should avoid stimulating the G-Spot until the woman is already fully aroused.  Stimulating the G-Spot too early can be unpleasant.  And initially, the pressure exerted should be very gentle.


G-Spot Stimulation combined with DATY

Posted by loverofwomen , 5/2/2003 9:16:03 AM

I usually position my love du jur on her back with her hips on a thick pillow.  I then have easy access to everything from her anus up.  Once I have the major and minor labia nicely engorged, and lubrication running well, I move my attention to the clit, and ease my index and middle fingers into her vagina, with my palm up.  My chin fits into the heal of my palm, and my pinky can be eased into the anus (of course, I obtain permission for all these activities before making any attempt).

My hand can then be moved gently in and out, providing stimulation to both the vagina and anus.  I also move my index and middle fingers back and forth to provide direct stimulation to the G spot.  I’m careful not to move to this step until the lady is very excited and I begin with an extremely delicate pressure which is gradually increased over time, based on the lady’s response.  The back and forth motion of the fingers begins as something similar to a beckoning gesture.  After a while, when things are in full swing, I’ll move my fingers in circles or alternate them as if they were walking.

When I wish to move away from the clit, I simply withdraw my pinky and rotate my forearm down, so my hand and arm are positioned as if I were carrying a pocketbook.  This allows access to the delicate area between the clit and the vagina.  

Of course, I withdraw my entire hand when I wish to rotate through areas other than the clit, and its immediate area.

As the lady cycles through each orgasm, I modify my oral stimulation of her clitoris to match the level of her excitement; from gentle tongue flicking during which there's barely any contact, to carefully pulling the clitoris over my lower teeth just as she's climaxing.  This range of oral stimulations is matched by changes in the intensity of my stimulation of her G-spot as well.

I can, and have, maintained this position for periods of several hours, and even then, have only stopped at the request of the object of my affection, not because I was tried or uncomfortable.  

One problem, however, can be cramps.  In some women, orgasms of this intensity and number within only a few hours can produce high levels of hormones.  In rare instances, these hormones can induce uterine cramping.  A heating pad is helpful, and I've found Pamprin Maximum Cramp Relief formula provides some relief as well.  In one case, with a civilian friend of mine, we would administer the Pamprin half an hour before our sexual activities.  This had the effect of heading off her cramping entirely.

Naturally, these techniques must be modified from lady to lady.  Oddly enough, some prefer no fingers in their vagina, claiming it's a distraction.  Others say the three finger approach makes all the difference.

I'm nothing if not flexible.


-- Modified on 4/17/2005 5:39:55 AM