Usually put, "Is there anything special you'd like me to wear?"
I almost always respond, "No, I don't want you to wear anything." So far, only one complied and answered the door (almost) naked. It would help if the women in this profession were slightly more adept at reading between the lines. To one woman I responded, "There's nothing special I want you to wear, but I hope you wear something special for our encounter." I guess she complied. She looked very nice. It was the only time I saw her, so I don't know if her outfit was specially chosen on my account or if she dressed as she usually does for a session.-- Modified on 7/27/2014 3:27:01 PM
I'm trying to figure out what the appropriate timing is for making a wardrobe request in advance of a meeting. Also, being appropriate about the presentation of said request (assuming it is via email) so as not to raise a flag. The particular case in mind is rather mild, but involves a certain style of lingerie undergarment. Is it typical practice that a provider would ask about this request, or is this just something the hobbyist needs to mention when confirming? Thanks!
my clients if there's anything in particular that they'd like for me to wear on our date. However, if you're planning a date with a girl and she hasn't offered you could say something like this (ideally a few days before the appointment if she's traveling, and a day or two before the appointment if she's local):
Hi (insert name here),
I'm really looking forward to meeting with you (insert day here). Hopefully it's not too much to ask, but I was wondering if you could wear (insert outfit request here). I would appreciate you making this effort for me. Please let me know your thoughts.
Have a nice day!
(Insert Name)
Something like that is respectful and giving her enough time to figure if she can get what you're asking for.
Hope this helps 
Hi Luna. Yes, that is helpful - good to know.
I ask for it in the initial email and the confirmation.
Such as "I really love the white outfit with stockings I saw in a recent photo of you" or try something such as "Do you do wardrobe requests". She will either give you the green or red light on the outfit request. Another thing that I do is read a client's P411 profile and if I have the type of outfit he has listed I will wear it. Many have been surprised and happy that I went that far.
It's that easy.
I absolutely love ladies in sexy lingerie outfits and heels. But never had a solid game plan for telling them what to bring as I like to be very discreet and respectful when booking my dates. I never thought of using my p411 profile to make such requests.
Looks like I will be updating my P411 later tonight.
Thanks Brilove. In this particular instance, it's not a specific thing - more of a vibe. Very easy to communicate in confirmation. Frankly, it's probably far more "everyday" than a typical wardrobe ask. Plus, I understand that this provider is very conscientious and does some homework as well. End of the day, it's still attitude and chemistry more than fabric 
Usually put, "Is there anything special you'd like me to wear?"
I almost always respond, "No, I don't want you to wear anything."
So far, only one complied and answered the door (almost) naked.
It would help if the women in this profession were slightly more adept at reading between the lines.
To one woman I responded, "There's nothing special I want you to wear, but I hope you wear something special for our encounter." I guess she complied. She looked very nice. It was the only time I saw her, so I don't know if her outfit was specially chosen on my account or if she dressed as she usually does for a session.
-- Modified on 7/27/2014 3:27:01 PM