A provider said my bed's metal frame is perfect for it, she saids she loves it rough, so anyone have any suggestions as to what king I should get that won't break so easily but won't hurt her wrists? Also any reason you would think a girl wouldn't want to do it during a double and says they only want it as a one on one thing?
She probably has her own that she likes using, something keyless so she can get out if she feels threatened. If you want to tie her up it's really something you should discuss before hand and she can tell you if she has the equipment or what to get.
As to why she only does it one on one, everybody has their own boundaries and limits and they need to be respected.
Oh no and I did I didn't even ask why, because she has her reasons and it's none of my business, I guess she's not that much of an exhibitionist even though we've all hung out together before, she seems to trust me and I guess she'd have to ask me to do it. I think it's kind of hot, but it never crossed my mind until she brought it up.
Old referance 'Joy of Sex' stated they looked better for photos but didn't have desired effect... and are very hard for the participant to undo themselves even with a key. (A Police training officer told me how a prank was to lock the rookie in his own cuffs.)
Prefered something with wrist compression & I'd suggest soft. My suggestion would be something with a soft lining to avoid chafing... a velcro closure is a good idea. You might find something in a nice pet store.
Clothesline washed with softener is plenty strong, tumble dry. Always quick release knots that you or she can undo in case of fire... leave the end to pull on the bed in reach.
I don't care if she says it's unnecessary... choose a safe word & respect it 200%. Refuse to play if she will not. Too many court cases start with "She liked rough sex... " but ended when someone got hurt.
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Prefered something with wrist compression & I'd suggest soft. My suggestion would be something with a soft lining to avoid chafing... a velcro closure is a good idea. You might find something in a nice pet store.
Clothesline washed with softener is plenty strong, tumble dry. Always quick release knots that you or she can undo in case of fire... leave the end to pull on the bed in reach.
I don't care if she says it's unnecessary... choose a safe word & respect it 200%. Refuse to play if she will not. Too many court cases start with "She liked rough sex... " but ended when someone got hurt.
Of course especially since she doesn't want the other girl to be present when we do it.
I'd expect she only wants to deal with one 'master' and of her choosing. She might not swing bi & therefore no female present.
The most she did was make-out and let the other girl play with her, she didn't try anything on her so she doesn't mind that a girl is present when everything is vanilla. And to be fair she did it of her own accord she initiated it, so while I don't think she swings both ways entirely there's enough there to have fun with another girl around, either that or she really thinks I'm as special as she says, but that's just crazy right.