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...looking for an invite!  Just kidding!

  I have traveled twice (long weeknds) with gentlemen I had never met, but we played twenty questions, and had numerous phone conversations before confirming.

  Hawaii anyone?

Hugs and Kisses,
Kelly

Hi guys.  I am relatively new to this hobby and I am interested in traveling with a provider.  I was considering going to Hawaii or to Europe soon.  Are most providers willing to travel outside of the continental US with their clients whom they know pretty well?  

Thanks

...with you, is to ask her.

   Many ladies, such as myself, include travel information on our websites, ads, and posts.  

   My only suggestion would be to not present the opportunity as a vacation to her.  Yes, traveling to Hawaii of Europe sounds delightful, but keep in mind that for the lady it is a "working vacation", and she will expect to be gifted for her time.

   If the lady is indeed interested, be sure to have a frank discussion on expectations regarding time spent together, misc expenses,  etc.  I know when I travel with a gentleman, no matter how much I enjoy his company, I need a bit of time for myself: maybe go the spa, enjoy a quiet cup of coffee with my book, check e-mail/return a call.   I do not check mail throughout the day, I never text, and my work phone is turned off during our time together.

  You will also want to be honest with your expectations behind closed doors.  For instance, I do not want to be awakened in the middle of the night for intimacy, but I do enjoy it upon waking in the morning.  

   I have enjoyed many wonderful travel dates, and I believe it has been for two reasons; good communication and chemistry.

   Good luck and have fun!

Hugs and Kisses,
Kelly

that spending a lot of time together with a provider, especially overnights, requires a good deal of compatibility and chemistry or you could have a very unhappy and expensive situation on your hands.

Towards that end, get to know some providers by seeing them for short sessions.  If one or more really ring your chimes, then consider an overnight and see how that goes.  Only if that goes well should you consider traveling for many nights with the person.

For sessions that long you should look at the companionship aspect as closely as the sexual aspect, and maybe more so.

For a quality companion, you should expect to pay at least $2,000/day, plus all expenses.

Bon voyage!

(I love Hawaii by the way.  That would be an excellent destination, especially the Kona coast of The Big Island.  The Four Seasons there is phenomenal.)

Thanks for the responses.  I greatly appreciate it and I will definitely take all of the advice into consideration.

...looking for an invite!  Just kidding!

  I have traveled twice (long weeknds) with gentlemen I had never met, but we played twenty questions, and had numerous phone conversations before confirming.

  Hawaii anyone?

Hugs and Kisses,
Kelly

I went to Europe with a regular client whom I knew well & felt very comfortable with, and I didn't charge anywhere near $2,000/day. If you have an ongoing relationship with the lady & she enjoys your company, I'm sure she'll be open to negotiating a reasonable rate.

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I have to confess, if a lady insisted on charging me two grand a day, to me she would be telling me that she considered the trip "work" and that she would simply be doing her job by going with me.

Quite frankly I don't want to spend extended time with a woman who has just proven to me that she is there JUST for the paycheck. I know that a woman still has bills to pay, but by lowering her donation to something less than she would make for a typical overnight date would lend me to believe that although it's still a paid date, it's something she really wants to do. I also don't expect a woman to be "on" all the time. I know the difference between fantasy and reality, and I don't mind the "real' woman, I couldn't imagine having to be putting on a front for me for an entire week long date.

But of course that's just me, others may feel very different about it.

.......an overnight date is usually gifted at a different rate than a twenty four hour date.  This must be taken into consideration.  Also, the OP did not ask what a reasonable number would be.  The lady he wants to travel with him might be a porn star who charges $5000. a night:  

   Yes, I do make adjustments for dear friends (doing so this week), but he and others know that I also DO have bills to pay.  I do, however, have two events that I would gladly attend off the clock, providing the gentleman makes it a first class trip.  No, they do not involve sports, and neither is in the United States.

   In addition, I would never visit with a gentleman a second time, even for an hour if I did not enjoy his company; let alone several days.  That would be torture!

Hugs and Kisses,
Kell

if the price is right..anything is possible..

Posted By: pistonfan531
Hi guys.  I am relatively new to this hobby and I am interested in traveling with a provider.  I was considering going to Hawaii or to Europe soon.  Are most providers willing to travel outside of the continental US with their clients whom they know pretty well?  
   
 Thanks

I know from reading the boards that some Providers insist on their own room, even if part or all of the night is spent with you.  There is, ummmm, girl stuff that they sometimes need to take care of and don't need to share that with you.  And the comfort of being able to sleep without worrying about some horny guy jumping their bones.  And other stuff that each and every person prioritizes differently.

On the flip side, if SHE starts to drive YOU crazy, then you'll be grateful that YOU have a private to escape to

Two rooms???????  Ughhh I wouldn't like that at all :(

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