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I hope nobody "blindly" sponsers you.
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Posted By: mdm2678
Hi all!  My name is Angelique and I'm a provider in the DC metro area.  I would really like to join P411 but did not know that they required existing reviews to join or sponsorship by an existing member.  I had all my reviews removed from TER to protect anonymity.  Would anyone be willing to sponsor me on the site? Thank you and  I really hope to hear back from someone :-)  
 
What do reviews have to do with anonymity unless you are using your real name as an escort?  Please clarify.  

P411 is a valuable screening tool, not something to try to sneak around.  Proper screening is more important than ever these days, for clients as well as escorts

Hi all!  My name is Angelique and I'm a provider in the DC metro area.  I would really like to join P411 but did not know that they required existing reviews to join or sponsorship by an existing member.  I had all my reviews removed from TER to protect anonymity.  Would anyone be willing to sponsor me on the site? Thank you and  I really hope to hear back from someone :-

Posted By: mdm2678
Hi all!  My name is Angelique and I'm a provider in the DC metro area.  I would really like to join P411 but did not know that they required existing reviews to join or sponsorship by an existing member.  I had all my reviews removed from TER to protect anonymity.  Would anyone be willing to sponsor me on the site? Thank you and  I really hope to hear back from someone :-)  
 
What do reviews have to do with anonymity unless you are using your real name as an escort?  Please clarify.  

P411 is a valuable screening tool, not something to try to sneak around.  Proper screening is more important than ever these days, for clients as well as escorts

...if one her previous gentlemen friends, or a lady she knew before her reviews were removed would vouch for her.

   When I joined P411 I was not yet back on TER (left in 2003/returned 2011), but I did have a few gentlemen friends whom I had known for years vouch for me, and I had a current website.  

   Screening is a two way street, and neither side should try to "beat the system".

Hugs and Kisses,
Kelly

Knulla-du-rövhål369 reads

previous clients or friends. She just ask for someone to sponser her. Sorry, but she needs to establish herself and get reviewed, so it is safe for all of us hobbyist/providers. Even if she asked to remove her reviews, which I doubt; she should still be able to contact previous clients.

one is forwarding, one is not. This IS the Newbie board, and the idea is to be helpful.

Kelly didn't leap to a conclusion or advocate providing a false reference, and anyone who has met her knows she screens WELL, and goes out of her way to offer very sound advice to both hobbyists and providers.

In this case, she offered a sound suggestion, in the context of what was desired as a result by the OP. She read and interpreted the post more broadly.

Being vouched by men and ladies who know her is not a problem... just as it is not a problem for the large number of men who have joined P411 on the same basis.

Just my .02

I don't believe your reviews are deleted.  If you asked for your profile to be hidden (and it's reviews with it)...  if you give TER your former ID, I think it can reappear.  What TER won't do is let you select which reviews to show (unless they violate TERs rules).  I expect any information in them would be out of date & worthless.  If there was personally identifying information then that might be excluded as a rule violation.

Why don't you post an ad offering a discount to P411 members. Then you can get a referral.

and see what options are available to you for joining P411.

If you have past TER reviews, simply ask TER to reinstate them.

If you have reviews elsewhere, see if that will suffice for verification. TER is not the only review site.

Contact former friends directly, and see if they will verify you - or see you again and post reviews and/or then vouch for you on P411.

I doubt there is ANYONE on TER who will "sponsor" you without meeting you first.  

You probably have quite a few options to get what you are seeking.  

Good luck,

Zen

Thank  you for the kind and informative response, Zen.   I appreciate you helping :-)

All the very best

TalkToTrees398 reads

... you claim to have ALL of your reviews removed, but I checked out your profile...

You have a bunch of reviews from 2003 to 2007, then it looks like the reviews stopped in early 2007, then suddenly a more recent review done in 2013, which is a 6 year gap.

How can you claim to have all of your reviews removed where I found about 3 pages worth of reviews... most are really old.

Not real certain that whatever you are doing is protecting your anonymity, because you still have reviews, even though those are old.

This sponsorship thing you are asking is a disturbing request to make just to join up P411.  

The Forest Waits
 

Posted By: angelique00
Hi all!  My name is Angelique and I'm a provider in the DC metro area.  I would really like to join P411 but did not know that they required existing reviews to join or sponsorship by an existing member.  I had all my reviews removed from TER to protect anonymity.  Would anyone be willing to sponsor me on the site? Thank you and  I really hope to hear back from someone :-)  
 

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-- Modified on 7/14/2014 4:57:02 PM

You might have noticed that her OP was up 27 hours before your reply. Did you consider the thought that she did have her reviews removed when she posted, and that she has had them reinstated since then?

The forest has spoken.

TalkToTrees360 reads

The fact that she has not updated anything since her initial original post means that those reviews were already in place.  

Who gives a shit when someone posts to an existing thread?

Are you the timekeeper on TER?

The Forest Waits

Posted By: perfectstorm
You might have noticed that her OP was up 27 hours before your reply. Did you consider the thought that she did have her reviews removed when she posted, and that she has had them reinstated since then?  
   
 The forest has spoken.

The OP had no reviews when I replied 7/13

Looks like the trees got burned this time.

-- Modified on 7/15/2014 9:07:31 PM

My handle isn't "talkstostorms" and I don't have a signoff that says "the storm waits"
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