I am from Connecticut. When seeking services it is important for me that my provider be mature,  sweet, affectionate and be willing to wear a short, attractive dress and sexy heels for me while we dine together at some point during our multiple hour encounter.

Los Angeles. GFE - is what I seek (sensual kissing a must) want the intimate experience - not just the ole in and out.

Survey says......

Minnesota here.  Mature, 30 and older, down to earth, good sense of humor, sensuous, and........one hot angel and one cool devil wrapped up in one.

Survey answers

Minnesota here.   What I appreciate in a date:

A lady/girl who is mature, loves her job (makes me feel like a King),

not a clock watcher, (I prefer multi-hr dates), who is down to earth, a great DFKer,  and enjoys MSOG,

plus- makes OUR time together like a date with a lover.

If a lady can make me feel like she REALLY wants to be with me, I will call her again and  again for more  dates.   Guys can tell if a provider is having REAL fun.    At least I can...

I much prefer mature ladies who take care of their bodies, and multi hour sessions.  She must be a good kisser!  She is not rushed, and has the ability to get lost in the moment with me (or at least make me feel like it), and let the session create it's own path.  I prefer a lady who wants to enjoy herself also, and is comfortable telling me what and how she likes.  I hope to provide a good BFE as well  I hate it when someone makes me feel like we are following a script.

My survey results from last year-- still helpful!

Click here for my formal survey results!

Have a wonderful week,

Tabu  

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I'm from Washington state, but play all over the west.
 
Physically, I'm most drawn to busty, slender ladies in their 30s and 40s. A good GFE is a must. Kissing of course, but a sense of intimacy and affection is what will bring me back. I love a sense of a real connection, and feeling that I gave as good a time as I got, both physically and emotionally.

Like others in this thread I prefer a provider with a mature attitude who is accepting of the fact my equipment is not as nimble as it used to be LOL.  

Lot's of kissing, touching, caressing.  I like to have my neck and nipples licked among other things, and I like to DAY.  I like a provider who can give me direction while I lick the "kitty" and really gets into it.  I am a pleaser by nature, and giving a partner pleasure is a real turn on.

A little kink and playfulness is also appreciated.

RI.  I eliminate fake pictures, upsells, scams of any kind.  
From those who are left...  I look at services...  some kissing...  I'm not all about BBBJ but if that's not offered, I pass.  I have to find her attractive (I think having great sex with someone bumps the looks).  Not a clock watcher.  I look for hot MILF types...  I just have found any 'young' providers who are caring enough to cater to a man who is not push button.    
When I leave I want to feel that I've left a Friend, Lover, GF.

DFK, and BBBJ are my deal breakers.  You don't do those, you don't see me.  Love a good kisser.  Of course, a gal who does not clock-watch is wonderful too.  I don't want to over stay my time, but sometimes things just take longer...., right?????  The majority of my dates are for one hour, and I am usually a one and done, so don't rush me out the door after I pop.

Swim

I've been thinking about what brings me back for more...   In every case, there was the attitude of "we will finish what we start"...  However much fun something might be...  in the end, a guy needs completion.  There's a saying if something isn't working...  try something different.  So a great lady will know WHEN to make it happen...  
I love giving pleasure to a partner...  it is a rare partner who not only wants to make a guy cum but wants to inflict as much pleasure as he can take before that happens.  

I love lying together naked after...  both totally satisfied...

I'm from NC.  The very first thing I look for is a lady who is around 35 years or older.  Since I am 57, I would have avery hard time connecting with a much longer lady.  I obviously like someone with phyical beauty but that is always in the eye of the beholder.  Once I find find ladies that fit that mold, I'll look at reviews, not for the "play by play" but just to get a general how I believe I would relate to her and how she would relate to me.  While I realize that in the end, these things are business transactions, being with a lady who is attentive and makes you feel like she really wants to be with you is what really makes the experience.  My experience is heightened by knowing that I am pleasing my partner.  So for me, the best expereinces I have had weren't about what she did or didn't do, but more about the chemistry between us.  Hope that makes sense.

Anglea, it sounds like all of the guys on here want the same thing.  We all want affection, we want someone to touch us, kiss us passionatley, make us feel like they enjoy the time with us.  We love to give as much as we like to get (well almost).  If we got all of that from our SO you girls would need to find another livelihood, but alas we don't get that at home, so I love to find mature ladies that give me what I desire.  I'm from the great state of Georgia.

m from LA (when ya going to visit angela!)
And the most important thing is a sense of humor and adventure..

It is a scientific fact that people with a sense of humor enjoy sex more.  And I am always up for something new and exciting

And love a sexy mature woman who loves to kiss and take their time

Great question Angela. We all want intimacy, both emotional and physical, if only for a short while. We want to connect with a special lady and treat her to pleasure as much as she treats us.

And, the one thing that hasn't been said, is we want variety. If we wanted the same thing over and over, we wouldn't hobby. If we come back for repeats with a lady, its because we like what we did together, but we aren't really interested in the same exact thing. We need you to help us change it up - different outfits, different positions, new techniques. You can see from my reviews that I've tried em all, young and old, spinners and BBWs, and everything in between. And I've had a great time with each and every wonderful lady I have seen. I haven't been able to repeat with all of them yet. There's just so many of you ladies, and only so much time....

Central New York, on the Erie Canal. Been in NC for a few years!!!
Didn't hobby in NY, A connection with chemistry with a lady who really loves to feel like a Woman!!!

and what is important to me in a provider is the power that comes from skill and confidence, someone who will concentrate on taking me up before offering me release. As you may have noticed in my past posts, I am a coriaphile, so seeing her in leather or other thick shiny clinging materials is irresistable arousal to me, maybe in a setting suggestive of adventure

Orlando area. A mature lady, not a clock watcher,and one that is easy to talk to openly about adult things. Also prefer a lady who is not bald below. Trimed is nice. When its shaved it its like a girl, which I like women as I'm in my 50's and not into the 20 somethings.

cnj here...   mostly looking for mature affectionate gf...  kisses are important but so are multiple releases

I always try to find someone that is well-reviewed for safety and quality reasons. This way I have an idea what to expect. I don't want to be rushed. I just want our time together to 'evolve'. I've never had a provider just go at me to see if I have a second pop loaded. Usually we are so exhausted from the first pop that we both need some time to catch our breath! LOL! I love to kiss so a good kisser is a must. I love lost of forplay and teasing that builds up to a hot finish. As far as a service- full service is not always what I need. Sometimes I just want oral- both giving and receiving gives me pleasure.