On P411 I am Basic +3. Some girls state that they will accept All members with References. Can they be the same girls that have given me my ok's. Aren't the oks same as references.
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the provider has seen you and that you're not LE and are OK to see. However, it's up to those providers who are not members as to whether or not they will accept that as a reference. In your case, I see no reason why your site OK's can not be used as references to other member providers. If she is a P411 member, your OK's should be acceptable as references. However, you might want to let them know you are using them as references, as it might have been some time since she OK'd you.
Swim
I would agree with Swim - but for me the ok's should be less than a year old. I WILL contact them for a reference. I may also require additional references depending on how many and how old the references are. If the ok's are from a fairly new provider, I may require additional references. The more reputable the provider the more likely I will accept her as a reference. Also if the "ok's" don't respond I will require additional references.
PS: I do this for Date-Check also.
I got on P411 by getting an invite from a girl I have been seeing and that required a second OK. this was in March 2014. the second girl Ok'ed me the same time and everything was fine. After reading your post I checked my oks and found that my second ok came in October 2013. I was seeing her then but I was not on P411. I know you can't answer how this happened. Just makes me wonder about P411.
I will make sure I keep my OKs up to date. Thanks for the intel. Who knows I may get to Chicago one day and need it
From what I understand a provider can post date the ok to the date that see actually saw you the last time. So, if you joined in March but she saw you in October, she post dated to the date you saw her. That is the way it should be done.