Newbie - FAQ

Yes, I have coined a few terms in my many years here on TER
GaGambler 368 reads
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but I can't claim credit where it is not deserved and sadly I can't claim that particular gem.

but it is one of the great ones, isn't it? lol

As a newbee I seen a provider I wanted to visit this coming Sunday and sent a pre-approved for a date thru a verification service on Tuesday. The reply I received yesterday morning was they would get back to me later in the day Wednesday which nobody did so this morning I PM them and have not herd back from anyone as of 3:00pm today should I wait or start looking somewhere else?  
Sorry should post on Newbee board.

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but there could be a good reason.  You just have no way of knowing.  Some girls are not real good at corresponding with potential clients.  She might have decided she doesn't want to see you.  Before giving up on her, I'd try one more time to contact her.  If you still get no reply within the next day or so, it's prob time to move on.

Swim

I give a lady a few hours, and then I make other inquiries.

If you fully book with another lady, and Lady A gets back to you, then say you booked with someone else. If she whines and fusses, that's the way it goes if she is going to take her sweet time about getting back to you.

least 24 hours, maybe 36 hours since the date isn't until Sunday.

Meanwhile, start researching to have a plan B and C ready to go.  If A doesn't get back to you within the allotted timeframe, then email both B and C and see who gets back to your first.

...move on to someone else. Had they not said that I'd have said give them through Thursday to get back to you. They set the deadline themselves. Move on to another lady they dropped the ball and you're running out of time.

People get busy and they forget, if you haven't heard from her contact her again if you really want to see her.  
On a side note some don't like pre-screening requests if that's what you sent. It can seem like a waste of time screening someone that may or may not make a date, you might have better luck sending a date requests instead so she has a time frame to work with.

This came from someone far wiser than me (GaGambler is where I heard it), but i have always kept it in mind and it helps in a moment of potential weakness:

"We may beg for sex, we may even pay for sex, but never ever beg to pay for sex.

We should all remember that one.

Swim

Thanks Swim, quoting smart guys like Gambler make me smart by association aka my only hope!

He'll be the first to admit that while he lives by that rule, he didn't make it up. Credit for that goes to one of his friends who was another former moderater on these boards. :)

It is a great quote and worth repeating.
"I will beg for pussy. I will pay for pussy. I will never beg to pay for pussy!"

good point PS... should have said 'made famous by...'  kind of like the 10 commandments were made famous by Moses.

GaGambler369 reads

but I can't claim credit where it is not deserved and sadly I can't claim that particular gem.

but it is one of the great ones, isn't it? lol

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