Since you said the trip was a bust, and you contemplated seeing the lady who was actually there.
Do these gals look-a-like?
In a effort to not be a creep I have a question. On my last trip south I was choosing between two women. I went to both of thier websites and TER review several times. Long story short, I saw the one I did not make an appointment with (my mistake) at my hotel. Obviously she was waiting for a date or just relaxing at the bar. I double checked picture to make sure it was her. I thought, for a moment, about approaching her and trying to set something up for later. My common sence came back to me and I decided it would most likely be an extreme creep move or she would have thought I was a cop. Now since that trip was crap I am wishing I would of done something to of salvaged the trip. Just wondering if I missed a chance or saved my reputation for another day?
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Did you see the gal you booked a date with?
Sorry for the homophone confusion. No I didn't. I have come to find out she has problem showing up. TER doesn't have reviews for no shows so I didn't find this out until later. I was told, and found it to be true, no shows are common in Wichita, Ks.
Since you said the trip was a bust, and you contemplated seeing the lady who was actually there.
Do these gals look-a-like?
your plan A prior to making the date. TER VIP is a very valuable tool.
This.
You should never contact her outside her requested method of contact protocol, especially for a provider you have never met. To do so would be to put her in a very awkward and uncomfortable situation. My guess is that had you approached her unsolicited that she would have relocated hotels immediately. This is the danger of putting unaltered photos out there. You did the right thing by leaving her alone.
Better to pass than freak her out. At least you know wether her pics are accurate 
. Sorry your trip went poorly but you know who to contact next time
unless she makes the first move, it's never a good idea to approach a provider in public. Not just for the creep out factor, but what if she's waiting on a sig other, or a civvie friend that doesn't know about her hobby life? You did the right thing.
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Through a normal contact method. If she lists a phone number or email you could have used that to see if she was available for a last min appt. When you told her where you were staying she may have jumped at the chance for a quick and easy meeting. You were right to not approach her in person, the chances of that turning out good were slim.
If I were out and about, having a drink, etc, I would be absolutely mortified if a stranger approached me as Tobi. A friend of mine had that happen to her once when she was at the mall...in front of her sister!!! Always contact a lady through her typical means, never approach us in public.
I do not know that I have ever spoken to an escort IRL, but if she catches me looking I just respond with what I really am thinking. Works almost every time. Quote " My eyes aren't too sharp, are we in class together? Did not want to be rude and not speak". No stage names, truthful easy out for everybody, won't creep out a sister, or my wife. Just don't tell me how much you are looking forward to the next time we can be together. (lol)
I get all my "strange" p4p so I at least am not looking to hook up IRL.