Newbie - FAQ

They want you to provide references from other providers you have seen...
xyz23 45 Reviews 477 reads
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...if you haven't seen any you won't be able to accommodate their request.  

Let them know you are a newbie and see if they will screen you in another way. They will likely want personal information in lieu of references.

Consider checking out a verification service like Preferred 411 (P411) or DateCheck. There is RS2K (room service 2000) too. It's more mid west.

danny7771721 reads

Hi guys!
Just wanted to book some escort in LA but they are asking me for 2 recent provider refer (Phone #).
What does that mean?!?!?! I need some one who can explain this to me asap!! THanks!!

name and phone number of two other escorts you saw recently and can vouch for you.  If you are new to this and have no references, they might be able to verify you another way if they are newbie friendly.  Good luck.

...if you haven't seen any you won't be able to accommodate their request.  

Let them know you are a newbie and see if they will screen you in another way. They will likely want personal information in lieu of references.

Consider checking out a verification service like Preferred 411 (P411) or DateCheck. There is RS2K (room service 2000) too. It's more mid west.

They want to know 2 things, you are not LE, and you are safe to see.  xyz has the right idea, join one or more of the verification sites.  It's better to give up some personal to these sites as opposed to giving it out to several providers.  P411 also allows their providers to indicate if they are newbie friendly which means screening is lighter.  The sites will generally work with you so that they can verify you are ok.  Once you get accepted and see some providers, ask them if they will reference you.

Swim

As above, you'll have to have met with others who will then be able to provide a reference to the new girl.  I don't know what info is verified, confirmed or shared, but there might be a presumption that #1 and #2 had verified you some other way (P411, D-C, ... employment check, etc). Then, they can confirm that you're not a flake or even that you're a nice guy.    

The Catch-22 is getting those first two meetings with only 0 or 1 reference.  

On another note, you shouldn't just hand out some one's name / number / email without asking them first. You might need to remind them of who you are or where and when you met.  Only after you email or otherwise ask her, "May I use you as a reference?" and get her permission can you then give her info to someone else as a reference.  Also, that way she knows to expect a call or email and who she is confirming.  



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Redball368 reads

Just don't do it, or go  see a gal who doesn't ask for this reference crap.  If us guys (all of us) banned together and refused to see gals who ask for references, guess what, she wouldn't have any clients, and not make a dime.  She would quickly give up her reference system, or go get a conventional job, what do you think she's going to do???  I've heard of gals asking for things like real name, employment info,...Hell NO!!!

Redball338 reads

And look at the reality of the situation, if the cops want you, they are going to get you, they can set up fake references all day long!  I know an escort who thought she was smart and asked out of town clients (yes she was well reviewed and guys who traveled here on business would book appointments with her) for their airplane tickets, guess what, the cop showed her an airplane ticket.....that's right, busted!

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