I didn't say I went exclusive... with a provider. I have found it pleasant to have a small number of Favorites whom I rotate. I will occasionally see new gals whom I am drawn to, thinking perhaps I'll find another Favorite. Also if one is unavailable, one is preapproved with alternates.
I totally respect that some might seek variety...
But it's not a matter of notches on my headboard for me. It's more like finding a lady who has a rare combination of looks, body shape, attitude and personality....like what any of us would want in a non-hobby girlfriend. I find such woman are rare indeed.
That's changed for me because I recently found a new and truly ATF I am sure to see again. In fact becasue of her I might not go looking for new experiences for some time, if at all. It's good to know I am not the only one who feels this way.
However, I can't help but be a little sad... A long time Favorite... my first successful meeting, actually... I concluded last year that I needed to find a new Gal or 2. After a long winter break, I went back... On non-play activities, we have a great time... we long ago blurred the lines... and there's plenty of OTC time. But the play time... I don't know if I've changed or she has... maybe both... but I've come away disappointed.
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familiarity eventually breeds contempt..or is it boredom?..
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that Hobby sex does, too. I look around my place and I think what can I do to make it a little different. Doesn't always work but what the heck, ya' gotta try!
On the other hand....If a relationship has grown in the enjoyment of each other's company and a person is gaining some sort of satisfaction from that time....isn't that what a companion/escort is for?
In reference to his mistress at his age of 92, my granddaddy said that "it may not work but it sure does feel good". lol. I come from a long line of passionate folk
Upon reflection, I know at one time we were quite close. But the service slipped or was down graded & I took a long break, later circling back. It coincided with life changes for me... all of which is immaterial. It's easy to woulda, shoulda, coulda... but picking things apart serves no purpose either. I don't want to put this "all on her"... 6 years is a long time. Considerably longer than my first marriage!
"It is, what it is!" I need to step back & accept things as they are. Our events are "off menu" so to speak (sorry, no Greek!)... basically in the extra time & companionship depts. Our appointments are a big step up in cost from HER norm... but are not unreasonable for my market area. It would arkward / impossible to adjust the donation back to her original rate on the basis of service.
I can get the same sex activity or nearly the same sex services for less. Or I can get more for this same cost. So if my horny is driving an appointment, than I should book another.
I need to update my private notations as to what expectations are with HER. (I think I'll, remove her from my hobby phone & add to my notes & reflect on what I want before booking an event. IF I want what she's currently offering at the established rate... then I should go in with ONLY that expectation & not be disappointed..
The customer, you lose all perspective AND common sense.. WTF? Do you think this is a Pretty Woman movie? I am amazed that guys think their situation is different. Get over it man... Research the Board and find a new provider..
notching the headboard as frequently as possible... I believe there are many quiet members who enjoy a respectful pay for play relationship with Favorite Ladies. Many members have ATFs??
While I AM researching potential NEW Favorites, I prefer to notch my headboard with those whom I think have that potential.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f6gDeGdQ3rM
p.s. I'm on a song kick these days - a song for everything. LOL!
Blues... Yes... appropriate.
HV
Since I am only a moderately active hobbyist I tend to go for variety. Still there have been a few I would have considered seeing more than once but for some reason or other haven't....and many more I would not repeat.
But it's not a matter of notches on my headboard for me. It's more like finding a lady who has a rare combination of looks, body shape, attitude and personality....like what any of us would want in a non-hobby girlfriend. I find such woman are rare indeed.
That's changed for me because I recently found a new and truly ATF I am sure to see again. In fact becasue of her I might not go looking for new experiences for some time, if at all. It's good to know I am not the only one who feels this way
I didn't say I went exclusive... with a provider. I have found it pleasant to have a small number of Favorites whom I rotate. I will occasionally see new gals whom I am drawn to, thinking perhaps I'll find another Favorite. Also if one is unavailable, one is preapproved with alternates.
I totally respect that some might seek variety...
But it's not a matter of notches on my headboard for me. It's more like finding a lady who has a rare combination of looks, body shape, attitude and personality....like what any of us would want in a non-hobby girlfriend. I find such woman are rare indeed.
That's changed for me because I recently found a new and truly ATF I am sure to see again. In fact becasue of her I might not go looking for new experiences for some time, if at all. It's good to know I am not the only one who feels this way.
I didn't say I went exclusive... with a provider. I have found it pleasant to have a small number of Favorites whom I rotate. I will occasionally see new gals whom I am drawn to, thinking perhaps I'll find another Favorite. Also if one is unavailable, one is preapproved with alternates.
I totally respect that some might seek variety...
But it's not a matter of notches on my headboard for me. It's more like finding a lady who has a rare combination of looks, body shape, attitude and personality....like what any of us would want in a non-hobby girlfriend. I find such woman are rare indeed.
That's changed for me because I recently found a new and truly ATF I am sure to see again. In fact becasue of her I might not go looking for new experiences for some time, if at all. It's good to know I am not the only one who feels this way.