Thank you all for your good advice. Best, J
I am new to this board. I am new to 60 and over.
How best can you communicate to a provider that you would, at least, like to go for another pop even if you cannot complete it?
Given that I/we are older I think many providers assume one and you are done.
Do you talk at the beginning and say....?or,
After the first pop do you say, "Gee, I really would like a BBBJ after I clean up a little."
I am not as good at communicating as I would like, so any suggestions would be appreciated.
Thank you,
J
you paid for.
If you need an hour to recover, then you ought to pay for two hours so you can get the first one off and then have enough time for the second.
As far as communicating, once you are behind closed doors and the clothes are off, you can just tell them what you want and what your physical limitations are.
No need to be shy about it. She needs to hear from you in order to make you happy.
just pay for 2 hours. That will communicate it to them before the appointment so they are not surprised and will be prepared.
the ladies will always accommodate you..since we are older..many will ask if you can pop twice..they will gladly help you..just be honest and straightforward with your lady..they have heard it all before..you are certainly not different..just older and wiser..
How best can you communicate to a provider that you would, at least, like to go for another pop even if you cannot complete it?
Given that I/we are older I think many providers assume one and you are done.
Do you talk at the beginning and say....?or,
After the first pop do you say, "Gee, I really would like a BBBJ after I clean up a little."
I am not as good at communicating as I would like, so any suggestions would be appreciated.
Thank you,
J
...The VIP membership will allow you to see the providers profile & read her reviews. Those should let you know if the provider offers more than one pop. Then all you have to do is communicate with her once you are there and into the session. There are providers that don't offer multiple pops but so far I haven't seen any. Knowledge is power.
I always ask the gentleman if he'd like to go again if there is more time remaining. I'M GREEDY! LOL
Tara xoxo
Thank you all for your good advice. Best, J
And...if you don't want to book 2 hours--book 90 minutes--that will usually put me on oxygen!
you are right--90 minutes is about right....
nice way to put it is "I don't know if I will be able to, but I'd love it if we could try for two pops today." That kind of takes the pressure off of her as far as results while still expressing your desire.
Some ladies are in the habit of asking if there is anything special that you would like to have happen, and others are "let's flow with it and see where it takes us" kind of people. But you don't need to worry about offending - someone here said that we ladies like to know what makes you want to return. So true.
xox
Jillian
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I usually suggest meet you back here (in bed) after.
The reason why is I try to pace the date so that we don't finish too early. If you have a 1 hour date and we are finished in 20 minutes then it may feel as though i rushed you out the door. So I pace the session so that it comes to a natural conclusion near the end of the appointment time. It is terrible when you are 55 minutes into the hour and then he tells you he was hoping for a second round.
I think the best way to handle it is at the beginning of the appointment say, "Let's get the first round out of the way right away. That way we can try again, even if unsuccessfully for a second round."
This helps me set the pace.
thank you for the advice. Best, J