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I am soooo disappointed with the cavalier... 

Posted 6/28/2012 at 9:43:41 AM

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attitude some fellow hobbyists have about the luncheons.  Dudes, DO NOT RSVP if you only
"think" about attending or "fantasize" about attending a luncheon with stunning women.  This
is a fun way to do some homework on your "list". "S" happens at the last minute, as life intervenes,
and BP understands this but that does not excuse boorish and insensitive behavior that borders on
irresponsibility.  BP stated that he would seek out No-Shows for compensation & I for one believe he
should follow through with that plan.  I believe he should publicly call out the most blatant scofflaws
by somehow posting those who did not offer any kind of cancellation notice and Ladies should keep
that list as a warning that those called out are unreliable Hobbyists.  On the other hand, Ladies who
just no-showed with no proffer of notification should also be called out in public.  I for one will NOT
be seeing No-Shows in the future, whether it be a "Luncheon" or "Party".  We have a vibrant and
congenial(for the most part) community.  But community is made of individuals and a community
can only stay vibrant if it's members continue to support community activities.
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Posted By: bond007
Hello,

Just returned from the LA Meet and Greet Lunch.  And quite frankly, there was a big disappointment!

Even though I didn't host the get together, I knew the particulars.  We had 35 ladies that requested an invite to the lunch.  And there were some on a wait list.

However, only 10 or so showed up!!  Granted they were a spectacular 10, but still 10 out of 35.  Ladies, the gents paid $80 to attend this lunch.  The ladies as always had their lunches paid for as part of the $80.  Honestly, we don't attend these get togethers (lunch or my parties) to sit and talk with each other.  We do that enough already.  We really don't even go for the food.  We view it as a chance to meet maybe somebody new or to meet somebody we have had our eye on for awhile.
We all understand that sometimes business gets in the way.  However, I do know that plenty ladies who attend these events block out the time to attend.

In short, ladies, we want to meet you.  Thats why we spend the money we do.  But quite frankly, if ladies are not going to attend, there probably isn't a reason to have these get togethers.

Thoughts?

Bond


 

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