Outcall no shows happen. You need to make a list of alternatives, up to ten alternatives. One member suggest contacting each alternate two to three days before you visit to let them know you will be in town and ask their availability, but do not make appointments. On the day of, if the priamry lady has not contacted you within thirty minutes after she was to meet you, start contacting the alternates starting with the most intereresting one.

Happens regularly.


For the guys..  wait a couple of days and cool off. Then make sure you post about it on the regional boards.

For the girls, give them one more chance then never make another appt with them.

provider or providee...

I know, it was obvious to you, but the rest of us don't reside in your brain, so...

RESPONSE:
I am always surprised when they actually DO show up

It's a little different than waiting for the cable guy

Independents are responsible to precisely one party: themselves

I recently had an outcall (amazing.. absolutely exquisite woman) finally after our 4th attempt to make it happen..

Our attempts did involve a no-show for the very simple reason she couldn't access my contact info because her email was down.  Simple as that.. impossible to drive out or call if she doesn't have my info.

I'm not saying that happened in your case, or even that it happens in any particular percentage of cases, but just that's what happened in my case..

I beg forgiveness if this is nonsensical, I just spent all day at the amusement park and am exhausted..

This has happened quite often to me over the years, including nine times in your own fair city.

I travel a lot, so I've gotten to the point where I plan for no-shows. I make sure to sure have a nice bottle of wine and a good book. If the provider shows, I have a great evening. If she doesn't, I have an okay evening.

I travel enough that I know I'll be in another city in a week or two, so I put my donation back in my wallet an anticipate the next provider I'm going to see. And I'm sure the room service girls appreciate the flowers!

Happened to me last month.  She called and said I was "so far away" from her."  I tried to call her back to offer to do incall at her place but her phone kept going to VM.  I too put the $$ back in the wallet until the next trip.  Had a grea time with a wonderful lady.  All's well that ends well.  Yes, I posted on the local board to let others beware.