I am new to this hobby, but when checking out other reviewers, noticed something called white list referrals. How do you get them? Do you ask the providers that you reviewed to do it? Wondering because some providers ask for them.
Hi Cleaverman,
I white listed a hobbyist because he exemplified what I feel would be the perfect new friend for a provider to meet. Trustworthy, safe, and a generally fun person with a great personality and attitude.
Feel free to ask your provider that you have had great chemistry to do this for you. It only takes a minute.
I am new to this as well, that is how I spotted your topic.
Love and Light,
Sable Paris
Is something like a referral you can ask a provider to post one for you after you have seen her.
You have to see her first to get the white list if she even does whitelist some providers do not whitelist up to the individual lady.
Some providers do ask for whitelist and some will not accept references.
It never hurts to ask.
...Self-Help Center. I placed a link to them below to make it easier to find them. I'll also give you instructions for getting to them.
I recommend you read all of the Self-Help Center if you haven't already. It will answer a lot of questions and help you ask more specific questions.
The Self-Help Center can be found on the upper right of this board directly under the red and white life preserver. Once you click on the Self-Help Center link scroll down to the topic heading "Some Info for Providers". (It's the fourth one down.) Click on that, then scroll down to the bottom of that page to the White List FAQ's link.
You can also find the Self-Help Center link in the list of "Quick" links on the left of the "My TER" page. See the "My TER" tab at the top of this page.
You may wonder why the White List FAQ's are in a section of information directed at providers. The answer is I don't know. Providers do need that information as least enough to be able to white list clients but putting it there unintentionally hides it from anyone looking for it that is not a provider. The White List FAQ's need to have there own link in the Self-Help Center. I'm going to go to the Suggestion & Policy board and make that suggestion now.
Thankyou for all the great info!