we hobbyists have this site & many others to seek detailed descriptions about all you lovely ladies out there- do you have the same from your end (hobbyists details-nice guy,asshole,cheap etc. for your own knowledge & safety- I don't need specifics-just wondering
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But I would suggest that you read up on TER and the hobby using the Newbie/Self Help Manual that you will find linked on this page.
It will not only answer the questions you have now, but will improve the quality of your questions for later.
unless the poster is trolling... 
I do know that some of the providers I see tend to do a very thorough check on all the guys they see. provider references give them means to ask the girls you've seen. Date check I hear it has a "recommended / not recommended, etc" option or something like that. there's also a blacklist site but it's been so abused that most people consider it a joke. private closed forums exist where providers can exchange info.
There's been some talk about reviewing hobbyists but that idea was deemed too stupid and useless since it will mostly be about fat old guys plus most guys do not want their personally identifiable information anywhere. providers have a providers only board which they can talk about stuff but TER policy is that they can't post personal information on any client. nothing prevents them from back channeling through private messages and emails though.