Should be a woman you're really attracted to. If from her ad she sounds wild, no holds barred, accept that this might be a bit of oversell, and feel confident that YOU'LL be the one setting the pace. I'm not sure EXACTLY what you mean by "conservative," but I'd never advise selecting a woman who strikes you as not very dynamic. If you get a mousy, quiet impression from her pics, it probably means she didn't spend much time or money on them. Maybe not much creativity either. More than getting a tender GFE from such, you'll stand a better chance of getting a mechanical session or even a bait & switch. You'll maybe leave feeling ripped off.
On the other hand, until you are comfortable reading the ads and reviews and "decoding" some of them, I'd stay away from the really high-end ladies, simply because you don't want to risk that much money. It's always buying a pig in a poke because even if some guys think a provider is a once in a lifetime wonder, she might simply not be your type. Find someone you find beautiful. Discover by looking at the ads what type of woman you want. This isn't like high school. You CAN have the hottest lady, you CAN touch the sexiest body. Her personality? Well, that's more of a mystery, but MOST are terrific people. MOST are fun to be with, safe, and in their own way they really care about your happiness for the time they're with you. You don't have to "settle" for anything less than the best you can find. Some day down the road you might want to do a pity session, taking your business to the Plain Jane who you think must not get many calls, but that's a LONG ways down the line. For the first encounter, go for the gold and give it your all! You deserve a good time!Is it a mistake to have your "first time" with a wild girl; one who will act like a porn star and has few limits? Or should you do it with a conservative person? I have a friend who's been with roughly 80-100 girls. He says your first time shouldn't be with a wild one because you'll set that as your standard for normal. If you get more restrictive person, especially a girlfriend; you'll feel disappointed. But another disagrees. What does anybody think?
Should be a woman you're really attracted to. If from her ad she sounds wild, no holds barred, accept that this might be a bit of oversell, and feel confident that YOU'LL be the one setting the pace. I'm not sure EXACTLY what you mean by "conservative," but I'd never advise selecting a woman who strikes you as not very dynamic. If you get a mousy, quiet impression from her pics, it probably means she didn't spend much time or money on them. Maybe not much creativity either. More than getting a tender GFE from such, you'll stand a better chance of getting a mechanical session or even a bait & switch. You'll maybe leave feeling ripped off.
On the other hand, until you are comfortable reading the ads and reviews and "decoding" some of them, I'd stay away from the really high-end ladies, simply because you don't want to risk that much money. It's always buying a pig in a poke because even if some guys think a provider is a once in a lifetime wonder, she might simply not be your type.
Find someone you find beautiful. Discover by looking at the ads what type of woman you want. This isn't like high school. You CAN have the hottest lady, you CAN touch the sexiest body. Her personality? Well, that's more of a mystery, but MOST are terrific people. MOST are fun to be with, safe, and in their own way they really care about your happiness for the time they're with you. You don't have to "settle" for anything less than the best you can find.
Some day down the road you might want to do a pity session, taking your business to the Plain Jane who you think must not get many calls, but that's a LONG ways down the line. For the first encounter, go for the gold and give it your all! You deserve a good time!
I see no reason not to as long as you make sure she is well reviewed, and you follow all the safety rules.
So what if it spoils you? Be spoiled! Insist on what you want, don't just settle.
That's the kind of spirit that makes the hobby great.
if you do go with the wild girl, keep in mind that subsequent encounters will likely not be as 'wild'. I would suggest going with a more simple GFE provider for your first one, so you aren't disappointed in the next one you see after the wild one.
If all you want to see are the wild ones, I think you will be limiting your choices of providers. It will also require much more research to find the ones you want to see. Research is time-consuming.
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My fourth encounter (yeah, I'm not a veteran like the other guys) was with a provider who bills herself as a "wild child". From her reviews, she definitely is. She's hot as hell, though, and I wanted to see her.
I'm in my 60's, so things weren't as wild. That seemed to be fine with her. On subsequent meets with her, we got more adventuresome as we learned what each other liked. By our last meeting I was getting everything I wanted, and I'm 99% certain she was getting off multiple times. It still wasn't gymnastics or anything.
I wasn't as wild as I was with my ex when I was in my 20's and 30's. I just can't be. But the wild child went at my pace.
Damn, I miss her.