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 Hello all! I am sort of perplexed as to why my issue has arisen but be that as it may, I have some how ran into a problem I do not know how to fix. First a little background on myself is that I used to be very active in our little community where I knew quite a few providers on a personal basis, enough so they would come to my home to just hang out, go out on my boat with me and my friends, or have me provide for thier needs when needed be that they are a ride or even security for them while they work. With this being said I was never in the need to use these Hobbyist sites nor did I need to worry about references and things of that naure because mostly my friends would either bring people over for me or would put in the proper phone calls as I needed them. Unfortunately along the way I slowly lost touch with the people I new in the world we call a hobby and then I was struck by a bad injury causing me to give up my hobby all together. Atleast until I stared feeling better but by that point I had lost all my contacts. I therefore decided to get verified through RS2K and set up my TER account thinking that was a solution to my problem of having no references to give to any prospective providers. After completing my application to RS2K I then attempted to make contact with a trusted provider where I set up an appointment all the meanwhile being completly honest and up front about my situation only to have a NCNS. I of course probably handled it wrong by continuing to attempt to reach the person with my attempts only to go unanswered. I attempted contact through other means over the next day with the same result. This did discourge me and although I was disappointed I later once agian attempted to make arrangements with a second provider roughly 30-60 days later. The day of my appointment I proceeded to follow the instructions I was given only to recieve the same type of responses as my first experience had been. That was until this person later contacts me by email completly being rude to me and saying that they would not be contacting me due to the fact that I was on the DC Blacklist. As you could imagine this came as a complete shock to me and I asked why I would be there and how I should go about coming up with a solution to this obvious mistake but my requests for help fell on deaf ears. I have no clue why I have been labled as such but the fact still remains that I have and I still am not sure as to whom or why I would end up on such a list. The bottom line is I have and I am not sure how to repair this issue or get over it. I have nothing to hide nor am I a problem client. I really would value some advice on my options and what I can do to untarnish my history? Please help me!  
 

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ello all! I am sort of perplexed as to why my issue has arisen but be that as it may, I have some how ran into a problem I do not know how to fix. First a little background on myself is that I used to be very active in our little community where I knew quite a few providers on a personal basis, enough so they would come to my home to just hang out, go out on my boat with me and my friends, or have me provide for thier needs when needed be that they are a ride or even security for them while they work. With this being said I was never in the need to use these Hobbyist sites nor did I need to worry about references and things of that naure because mostly my friends would either bring people over for me or would put in the proper phone calls as I needed them. Unfortunately along the way I slowly lost touch with the people I new in the world we call a hobby and then I was struck by a bad injury causing me to give up my hobby all together. Atleast until I stared feeling better but by that point I had lost all my contacts. I therefore decided to get verified through RS2K and set up my TER account thinking that was a solution to my problem of having no references to give to any prospective providers. After completing my application to RS2K I then attempted to make contact with a trusted provider where I set up an appointment all the meanwhile being completly honest and up front about my situation only to have a NCNS. I of course probably handled it wrong by continuing to attempt to reach the person with my attempts only to go unanswered. I attempted contact through other means over the next day with the same result. This did discourge me and although I was disappointed I later once agian attempted to make arrangements with a second provider roughly 30-60 days later. The day of my appointment I proceeded to follow the instructions I was given only to recieve the same type of responses as my first experience had been. That was until this person later contacts me by email completly being rude to me and saying that they would not be contacting me due to the fact that I was on the DC Blacklist. As you could imagine this came as a complete shock to me and I asked why I would be there and how I should go about coming up with a solution to this obvious mistake but my requests for help fell on deaf ears. I have no clue why I have been labled as such but the fact still remains that I have and I still am not sure as to whom or why I would end up on such a list. The bottom line is I have and I am not sure how to repair this issue or get over it. I have nothing to hide nor am I a problem client. I really would value some advice on my options and what I can do to untarnish my history? Please help me

Posted By: dc1344
 
   
   
   
   
   
   
   
 Hello all! I am sort of perplexed as to why my issue has arisen but be that as it may, I have some how ran into a problem I do not know how to fix. First a little background on myself is that I used to be very active in our little community where I knew quite a few providers on a personal basis, enough so they would come to my home to just hang out, go out on my boat with me and my friends, or have me provide for thier needs when needed be that they are a ride or even security for them while they work. With this being said I was never in the need to use these Hobbyist sites nor did I need to worry about references and things of that naure because mostly my friends would either bring people over for me or would put in the proper phone calls as I needed them. Unfortunately along the way I slowly lost touch with the people I new in the world we call a hobby and then I was struck by a bad injury causing me to give up my hobby all together. Atleast until I stared feeling better but by that point I had lost all my contacts. I therefore decided to get verified through RS2K and set up my TER account thinking that was a solution to my problem of having no references to give to any prospective providers. After completing my application to RS2K I then attempted to make contact with a trusted provider where I set up an appointment all the meanwhile being completly honest and up front about my situation only to have a NCNS. I of course probably handled it wrong by continuing to attempt to reach the person with my attempts only to go unanswered. I attempted contact through other means over the next day with the same result. This did discourge me and although I was disappointed I later once agian attempted to make arrangements with a second provider roughly 30-60 days later. The day of my appointment I proceeded to follow the instructions I was given only to recieve the same type of responses as my first experience had been. That was until this person later contacts me by email completly being rude to me and saying that they would not be contacting me due to the fact that I was on the DC Blacklist. As you could imagine this came as a complete shock to me and I asked why I would be there and how I should go about coming up with a solution to this obvious mistake but my requests for help fell on deaf ears. I have no clue why I have been labled as such but the fact still remains that I have and I still am not sure as to whom or why I would end up on such a list. The bottom line is I have and I am not sure how to repair this issue or get over it. I have nothing to hide nor am I a problem client. I really would value some advice on my options and what I can do to untarnish my history? Please help me!  
 

Some gals black list guys over the most trivial of things, and providers in the know, know that certain gals do that and thus ignore their warnings.

So, get out there and look for providers who will see you, then get some cred and screening from them.

You'll come out of it OK.

Usually I stop after two messages that go unanswered.  maybe a month or two or three later I might try again but that's it.  I keep it mostly short and concise too unless we are in a conversation together.  

there are no shortage of providers out there. in fact there are far too many that I'm having trouble deciding who to see any given time.  

why the need to bombard a particular girl for not seeing you?

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I was told I was blacklisted because I asked if she did half hours .. That's all it was ..some providers are crazy out here .. If you get with a agency you can use them . Even if you get a Indy girl that will speak for. No big deal at all forget about it and move on.  

Even if you post a few reviews on here you can use that as a reference ..

They realize that there are some BSC hookers that will blacklist for anything, and only serious issues are viewed as a red flag. Then, you have providers that do not care if it is true or not, and will not see anyone on a BL just for drama's sake.  

It's not the end of the world, but might want to look at some things you could have done to get on one.  

Generally, only providers who know these boards use the BL sites. I have never heard of just a fly by night BP girl using them so it will depend how much weight her word holds. There are some providers who could blacklist you all day long and no one would take them seriously, and others who have a killer reputation for years that people hold in high regard.

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