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DJ1985 21 Reviews 307 reads
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Take few deep breaths and leave her lead the way. Chatting on the couch is not part of a good provider's screening, screening long done before you meet. If she isn't sure you're safe you wont be sitting on her couch.

stillrunnin1707 reads

ok.  almost all of the reviews I've read talk about meeting, "chatting on the couch" until we are comfortable and then "getting more comfortable"

I understand that the chatting is part of the gfe experience(and want that), but is it also part of the providers screening process?

from posts on here and the faq page, I understand the do'd and don'ts, but I know I'm gonna be shaking in my shoes!!!!  I don't want to look like an idiot trying to make small talk...   and don't just say "act natural"...  there is gonna be a huge adrenaline rush going on(and one hell of a case of nerves) so "acting natural" is what I'm gonna try and do, but....

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swimtrekr379 reads

The chitchat's main goal, IMO, is to try to get both of you to relax in each other's company.  I'm still nervous when seeing a provider for the first time.  Repeats are somewhat different since we already know a little about each other.  I don't mind chatting for a few minutes to catch up on life.

So try to relax and just enjoy her company and all the good stuff that goes with it.

Swim

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xyz23326 reads

...she'll know you're nervous. The talk time is good for settling the nerves but it's also a good time to discuss what do you like kind of things. Let her lead that off though as some providers don't like to have that conversation but rather bring things up as needed.

I've never had the chit chat on the couch. I do have talk time with the lady but it's usually on the bed or in the shower or both. I often ask the lady to join me in the shower. None have ever refused though one asked if it was ok to wear a shower cap. Shower time can be lots of fun.

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palomamontecarlo352 reads

Whether it is by talking to you, giving you a nice back rub or holding you hand... Just let things flow spontaneously..

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DJ1985308 reads

Take few deep breaths and leave her lead the way. Chatting on the couch is not part of a good provider's screening, screening long done before you meet. If she isn't sure you're safe you wont be sitting on her couch.

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Heavenly_Sky153 reads

Posted By: stillrunnin
ok.  almost all of the reviews I've read talk about meeting, "chatting on the couch" until we are comfortable and then "getting more comfortable"  
   
 I understand that the chatting is part of the gfe experience(and want that), but is it also part of the providers screening process?  
   
 from posts on here and the faq page, I understand the do'd and don'ts, but I know I'm gonna be shaking in my shoes!!!!  I don't want to look like an idiot trying to make small talk...   and don't just say "act natural"...  there is gonna be a huge adrenaline rush going on(and one hell of a case of nerves) so "acting natural" is what I'm gonna try and do, but....
I always leave 5-10 mins for chatting depending on the guy. Chatting makes a huge difference if someone is nervous when they arrive. If they don't seem nervous I'll go for the lap dance right away:)  

But still I run things differently

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