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Many/most deny keeping records but...
chipjeep 3 Reviews 432 reads
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Nearly every provider I've ever met keeps contacts on their phone for as long as they have that phone...maybe longer. I don't really blame them. Makes it much easier to know who they have and haven't had contact with. I don't know of any provider that would store any additional info on their phones.

Emails are another story. Some save them and others don't. I admit that I do. Makes it easy for me to remember our history if it's a girl I have or would consider repeating with. Emails from the 'one and done' girls eventually get deleted but I have some that are years old.  

Some may be concerned about having 'incriminating evidence' but A) I aint voluntarily giving up access to my email, B) Good luck to getting 'heresay' to hold up in court, and C) I'm not married anymore so I really don't give a rat's ass if I somehow get outted based on such drivel.

How do providers keep a listing of their clients?  I assume most providers store their clients numbers and/or email addresses in their smartphones. How much information do they store about us?  She may have several clients named "Joe" for instance.  How does she distinguish between them?   How much of a risk is it for clients to have their information kept like this? What is the chance this might get into the hands of LE?  Or it could be anyone who knows what her business is.  
Guess this is one of the main reasons why getting a hobby phone is so important.

Nearly every provider I've ever met keeps contacts on their phone for as long as they have that phone...maybe longer. I don't really blame them. Makes it much easier to know who they have and haven't had contact with. I don't know of any provider that would store any additional info on their phones.

Emails are another story. Some save them and others don't. I admit that I do. Makes it easy for me to remember our history if it's a girl I have or would consider repeating with. Emails from the 'one and done' girls eventually get deleted but I have some that are years old.  

Some may be concerned about having 'incriminating evidence' but A) I aint voluntarily giving up access to my email, B) Good luck to getting 'heresay' to hold up in court, and C) I'm not married anymore so I really don't give a rat's ass if I somehow get outted based on such drivel.

....I delete every number that comes in.  When I return calls, it is from a third party blocked number.  I do not text, and most gentlemen whom I have entertained previously, simply send me an e-mail.  

    While I do keep a database of sorts, it does not contain full names, complete phone numbers, etc.  Many years ago I came up with my own code, and it works very well.  It's time consuming, but it works.

   Off to watch basketball!

Hugs and Kisses,
Kelly

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From spreadsheets to word docs to calendars to simply gmail where you can search anything, to pure memory. From what I have heard, getting a hobby phone is important for men who have significant others, not necessarily to avoid their phone number being found by LE.

I found neither of those things to be beneficial to me. If he needs a ref, HE is on the side of providing proof he saw me, not me saving his shit. Sorry, but I did not operate my business that way, and I certainly did not see enough clients to need any sort of stored data or a spreadsheet.  

The only information I kept was the amount of cash I made in x city and how much of a variation between flight and hotel costs vs. actual profit was made per city. That was for me to keep track of where I might want to visit again, and places I should write off as worthless.  

If all you are using is a fake email, fake phone number, and a board handle then I see no issue with a provider keeping that on a device that is not going to be viewed by her damn friends and family, but I would not bother with that either.  

It's much simpler to ask the guy where and when we met, to describe himself and describe the inside of the incall we met at. Too many guys can try to use another guy's information to see a provider, including their P411 and TER info. My way never failed me, and I never had some wife calling me because I did not list a number on the internet.

with an SO, but having your name and phone/email address on a provider's phone is merely suggestive and not incriminating. Hell you can have a sexual discussion with women (or men) all you want, whether you know them or not. And keep the records of it. So what?

What you cannot do, and what is incriminating, is talk about having sex for money. If you're following the rules, that ain't happening.  

So follow the rules and be safe. If the cops show up, shut it and get your lawyer. If your SO finds out... well, you are probably SOL.  

IMO.

I could understand why some would keep info on hand if they see multiple clients per day (or week), but some of us are low key. It's easy to remember, especially if most of our clients return for more. ;)

It's just the law of nature, "occams razer"  if you ask me... most people will not do things in a more complicated way. they cut out the complicated steps and take the simpler way.  

it's simpler to just keep email records of everything.  it's simpler to put the name along with the number on her phone cuz how many girls will remember all the initials and code names they claim to come up with?  it's simpler to keep track of prior conversations if they don't delete.  

it's also simpler for her to flip and give up her list if she ever gets bust and needs to negotiate her way out. correct me if I'm wrong but this seems to be the case in a recent bust in AZ as well as many prior cases.  

this was why you need a hobby phone and a hobby email. it's not just a good idea,  it's a must.

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