I recently read some really good advice that if she does Blacklist you, contact one or 2 other women who you've seen and just let them know what you're going through so that if you were nice they could take a minute or 2 to post a rebuttal if she does end up putting you on a blacklist.
Honestly, the bullying on both sides is so disgusting that if it were someone I knew who was being threatened with that, I would totally volunteer to contact this woman. Someone I saw in another city was being "encouraged" to write a review despite this guy's policy being that he doesn't want to ever review, he just wants OKs on P411 and Whitelists, and he is so nice. I was very close to contacting her, just because it's so undeserving and sometimes bullies just need to be stood up to.I met with a provider a few weeks ago and left what I thought was a very honest review (7-attractive/6-nice time). She has been harassing me for nearly 2 weeks straight and promises to "blacklist" me if I do not remove it. I'm whitelist several times over, is the blacklist real?? If so, could I have her "blacklisting" removed since it's obviously vengeful??
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TER does have a providers only board, where she could discuss you.
Does she have your personal information? If she has personal info and she puts it on a public blacklist site, it could hurt you.
Otherwise you probably have nothing to worry about and should stand your ground. In fact you should consider forwarding her threats to TER admin.
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I recently read some really good advice that if she does Blacklist you, contact one or 2 other women who you've seen and just let them know what you're going through so that if you were nice they could take a minute or 2 to post a rebuttal if she does end up putting you on a blacklist.
Honestly, the bullying on both sides is so disgusting that if it were someone I knew who was being threatened with that, I would totally volunteer to contact this woman. Someone I saw in another city was being "encouraged" to write a review despite this guy's policy being that he doesn't want to ever review, he just wants OKs on P411 and Whitelists, and he is so nice. I was very close to contacting her, just because it's so undeserving and sometimes bullies just need to be stood up to.
If she has his personal info and posts it on a public blacklist site that could be very bad. If all she has is hobby info for him, then it's no big deal. Also as far as the hobby, if he has whitelists, and references from other providers he should be easily able to overcome a simple blacklist and still see other ladies, as you said.
The big issue is when BSC providers blacklist guys' real info on public blacklist boards that are easily searchable by spouses, children, employers erc
I called a provider asked her if she did half's she flipped out on me.It's no biggie she can't do much.