So I find a well reviewed escort and decide to book 2 hours so it wouldn't be a rush (first time hiring and escort) also assumed that 2 hours would include MSOG. Was I stupid for assuming that? Anyways, I popped in under 5 minutes and politely asked if I could go again. She said I would have to pay the full rate for another hour, and I was only 30 minutes into the appointment. Maybe I was too nice and she knew it was my first time so she just hustled me???? Or is that standard? Thank you for your time.
Sorry your first experience did not go well. There are many providers who offer MSOG during a one hour session. Others consider the session over after the first pop, even if it happens in 15 minutes. I'd move on to someone else. There is a sortable field under the reviews called something like "allow multiple pops" so you may want to search on that field
but I think you knew that, did you read her reviews? Was there any indication that she might "play" you in the reviews. "Assuming" anything about a session is always risky. Remember everything about a date is pretty much a YMMV. Concerning expections in a date, there's no way to know if a certain activity (MSOG) is a dead solid lock, however, if you continue to read about the activity in review after review, chances are good you'll enjoy the same treatment.
If you know you're capable of MSOG, once you're both comfortable and you've done some lfk/dfk and other introductory activity, you might let the escort know, you're an MSOG kind of guy.
I know I've been asked early in a date, if I'm good for two rounds, I usually respond by tell the escort, "depends on you"
My final advice, just keep on moving, consider it a learning experience. I've read much worse when it comes to a first date.
...I ask because others have said the provider was well reviewed only to later reveal she had two or three reviews with so so scores and the reviews were by guys with one or two reviews to their credit.
Did her profile indicate multiple pops were allowed?
If her profile says yes the juicy details should back it up. There is always the chance what happened for one guy won't happen for you.
What did the details of her reviews say on this topic?
If it's clear she doesn't allow msog then no you weren't played. Though with a two hour session it could be argued that msog should always be on the menu. But...
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No, this is uncommon but not unheard of. This sounds like upselling to me. A rate is usually all inclusive on what is listed. I usually do not book over an hour on a first visit.
That any man booking a two hour appointment would be wanting MSOG.
Or at least to try!
Just my two cents.
YMMV.
(IMO) However, if you popped 15 minutes in, and had already paid for 2 hours, I do not see ethically how she could try to sell MORE time, unless you wanted 3 hours.
If a man pays me for 2 hours, I stay 2 hours (usually over) unless I am politely dismissed.
As the other men suggested, do your research & search correctly.
I am sorry this happened on your first appointment.
The vast majority of times when you book for 2 hours the lady will understand you want more than one pop.
I had one experience where I was limited to 1 in 2 hours, but that turned out to be the particular circumstances of one day for a provider who had been really over-worked by her agency, and she had just finished up with a bad date when I arrived (I found this out on a subsequent date with her after she had gone independant).
I personally find a bit awkward that you would ask her "if you can go again" .. As I say in numerous posts.. let thing flow spontaneously.. generally speaking, within two hours MSOG will be offered but maybe she was under the impression that you will be working her to dead throughout the two hours reason why is important to take a break, have a drink, talk for a bit and try again.. Remember, we are regular girls and some things that won't fly in the regular world will not fly with us either...
Next time, let her take control and you will be much happier, that is why you need to read all her reviews to know what is her MO.. (one pop... talk, massage etc.. and we played again kind of thing).
Yes I think you got played. Not an outrageous scam... but played none the less. Some girls make an art form of getting the guy to pop fast & they are done. Even if you weren't physically able to go again, most pro providers will provide companionship for the duration of your appointment. With 2 hours, a well reviewed provider would almost certainly offered MSOG with appropriate recovery times in between. As has been suggested, a well reviewed provider will offer a second round if you are up to it within a single hour.
It takes a lot to get me going & I recall booking hour & a half for several appointments until a gal suggested we were finishing within the hour (I thought a bit over) & no need to pay more. Very honest of her.
What to do now? Write a draft of a review... let it sit for a week or so while you reflect before submitting it. Edit is as necessary.
Move on. This was a learning experience... You know her game now. You really need VIP before you book appointments. You need to research her profile, her reviews, her previous reviewers. Well reviewed means 6-10 reviews minimum and at least some of the reviewers should have 6-10 reviews themselves.
Thank you for the informative replies. Maybe I shouldn't have asked "If I could go again?" but then again I didn't know what to say. It was pretty awkward and I wasn't sure on proper etiquette. Hoping the next time goes better
in the reviews? Did he read the juicy details in the reviews to see that others did in fact get MSOG?
One and done can be expected with a half hour appointment or a high volume provider that has another guy waiting for you to leave. If she cut you off after a quarter of your booked time, you got ripped off.
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You may not get what you wanted, but she would not get what she wanted either. Nobody wins. Hopefully, it will discourage such behavior in future.
I'm glad you thought with your big head on this one. You have learned. We were all newbies once and made newbie mistakes. We try to reduce the mistakes for newbies but it's impossible to not have any. I'd say you did only 'fair'. But at least you got something...
This is why we recommend Well Reviewed Providers for Newbies. Once you gain more experience in the game you may want to take more risks. But by then, you'll have the experience to avoid some of the scams. Even experienced reviewers get scammed once in a while.
You get what you pay for. One and done. A half hour appointment is code for BJ and an hour for Full service. At least in my experiences on Long Island. The higher rate and higher class gals usually are multi pop for the same price. More about time than "pop".
Unfortunately sir....you got hustled. Next time, if there will be a next time, don't "ask". Just "take". These are women. Think about your wife or gf. Would you politely ask? Or just make an advance? Any woman will respond more positively if you take the initiative. Let alone you are paying for time here. Remember, first and foremost, you are paying for time, not a la carte, which by the way, you should never do.