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Just viewed my ad on TER. I noticed that it received 600 views. Ummm....is it possible to have 600 views and not have anyone sincerely inquire? Is this typical? Then again I guess everyone wants to be safe out here.

and no inquires, there could be something lacking in your ad that doesn't give guys confidence in contacting you. If you fix the underlying issue, you can have better conversion rate...

Can you please post your ad here, for us to see, or send me in PM ?

I cant PM you at the moment. but my email address is on my page. Can you email me? I would love to know your thoughts regarding my webpage.

my website is sweetdecember247.callgirlfiles.com

Hopefully it will work. Look forward to speaking with you

The Ad Boards under the "Carolinas". It reads something along the lines of 36DD Petite&Curvy Ebony Companion GFE.

1.  First of all you have no reviews.. So that can greatly change your conversion ratio

2.  You are only offering Outcall service. When it comes to just outcall (no incall) by a provider that is not reviewed, there is a stigma of cash and dash...i.e. rip off.  You sound very sincere, but a lot of rip off happen when the provider just provides outcall service, and not being reviewed doesn't help either. Have you considered hosting at a decent hotel?  You might get more people emailing you. A lot of people don't want to host themselves because A) Its a little bit expensive B) It leaves paper trail. Not good if you are married.  

3 You may have PMs.. You need to pay for VIP (at least initially...till you get limited VIP) and see if there are any messages in your TER inbox

4. Also don't forget to check your Spam folder in Gmail to see if any messages went there..

Good luck..

Thank you!  

1. Yeah I have no reviews! Just a lot of views  
2. I can certainly understand the concerns of being ripped off as I have concerns of keeping my freedom while doing this. Im just trying to put myself through school and keep a roof over my head. Certainly dont want to harm anyone and am very sincere. I believe in Karma and cannot stand to do harm to anyone. Just a lot of sweet fun (lol). Until I get on my feet I cant offer incalls. I maybe willing to offer incalls to the right person that I feel safe to let into my home.  
3. I will certainly work on obtaining a VIP membership until I am able to get reviews.  
4. Checked my spam folder and nothing is there :(

 
5. Thanks again for your help!

riorunner394 reads

Hello SD;
   I believe Curly has given you some good tips. One thing jumps out at me upon reading your reply. That's where you say you might consider offering incalls in your home. I see you clarified the comment by saying you'd only do it with the right person. My advice is to be extremely careful about providing from your primary residence. And I believe I'd be correct in saying that most experienced folks in P2P would advise against it.
   From the woman's perspective you need to consider nosy neighbors, men who are stalkers etc. From a guys perspective, if he knows it's your home, one has to consider unwanted interruptions, ie boyfriends etc
   I know it can be tough to break into the business. But if you handle yourself professionally and always strive to under-promise and over-deliver then you can most likely earn what you need for school etc.
   Good luck to you in your new endeavor!   Regards.......RR

Don't do it at home would be my advice.. If hotels are too expensive for you, you can always rent an apartment, where you don't live in a gated, safe community, and only use it for INCALL. The bill, per month, would be fraction of what hotels would cost.

Yeah, I dont think I am going to do it from my home. I will certainly start off in a hotel. I think its safer for me and very comfortable for my date once he is verified.

Point taken and understood. I think it would serve me to purchase a room. Although Im single I dont want to create a hardship for myself. I really appreciate you for reminding me of the risks that can be associated with offering incall from my home. Patience, and being humble in this line of business appears necessary in order to succeed. Thanks again  

~SD

without any inquiries.  I wouldn't call it typical, but who knows?  There might be something in your ad that is keeping away potential clients.  It could be anything, but without seeing the ad, it's hard to say what it is, so I'm not going to guess.  I'd follow the previous poster's advice and re-evaluate the ad if I were you.

Swim

So you are going to create a buzz. Just no one wants to be the TOFFT guy. Though the fact you are outcall only right now should make them feel a bit safer. Don't worry won't be long and you'll be on the fast track. I'm a ways off from ya or I'd be tempted to be the first fella! Just sayin!!!

Case321 does that mean you are coming to NC??? lol...just kidding!

I'm in NC just hard to sneak away to Charlotte right now :0) I'm up toward Ws or as I call it " the desert"

New talent seems to get more attention in terms of views especially  if the photos are compelling but until there's some reviews from known guys people generally try to play it safe.  

Try linking your TER profile to your handle if or once you get reviews.  you'll likely get more serious inquiries with less tire kickers

I have no reviews as I am new. Can you help Drunken Asia. lol

...A previous poster mentioned NC. I checked the Carolina's board & didn't find your ad.

Drunken Asian...you are the man!! Thank you...Thank you..Thank you!!

I don't see anything in the ad I'd consider off putting.
I would have a hard time with out call only but that's my problem not yours. There are others in the same boat. However I have heard from many on here that they prefer out call.

Reviews could be the issue and that's just something you'll have to work on with patience and being a presence on the Carolina's board.

Thank you!! Certainly working on the incalls. :)

Let me know. I will buy you a Hyatt Gyft card with my bitcoins, so you can have your own incall. My Virtual SD sends me $200 worth of bitcoin each month usually around the first.  

Once you get money from the first incall, keep some of it for the next hotel.

lol...Stina I think I may have to schedule a date with you. Regardless of how much it is per hour. I will give you what you want baby....lol! Sweetheart you are.

Just promise me you'll duo with me if you ever tour in Atlanta because you are smoking hot, babe.

Posted By: SweetDecember
lol...Stina I think I may have to schedule a date with you. Regardless of how much it is per hour. I will give you what you want baby....lol! Sweetheart you are.

TalkToTrees537 reads

When you limit your sessions to outcalls only, that will definitely limit your opportunities to meet clients.  

You should consider offering Incall sessions. The number of sessions will go up for sure.

The ad title needs a minor fixing, but can have a major impact on perception. Petite&Curvy ... that part needs to have a space before and after the ampersand. I know it sounds picky, but some folks will look at bad punctuation, misspellings and poor grammar as someone who may be "ghetto" and will refuse to see them based on that perception.  

Oh yea, do NOT ever and I mean EVER resort to responding to someone in emails and texts by way of shortcut typing.  

For example: "How r u doing?"  Geez... it wouldn't kill someone to type it out like this: "How are you doing?" We are talking about a few letters.  

Other than that minor issue with the ad title, your ad content looks good to me.

The Forest Waits
 

Posted By: SweetDecember
Just viewed my ad on TER. I noticed that it received 600 views. Ummm....is it possible to have 600 views and not have anyone sincerely inquire? Is this typical? Then again I guess everyone wants to be safe out here.

Hi TalkToTrees:

Thanks so much for your help! I do understand that people have their own preferences. Hope your weekend is off to a great start.

*hugs*

Posted By: TalkToTrees
When you limit your sessions to outcalls only, that will definitely limit your opportunities to meet clients.  
   
 You should consider offering Incall sessions. The number of sessions will go up for sure.  
   
 The ad title needs a minor fixing, but can have a major impact on perception. Petite&Curvy ... that part needs to have a space before and after the ampersand. I know it sounds picky, but some folks will look at bad punctuation, misspellings and poor grammar as someone who may be "ghetto" and will refuse to see them based on that perception.  
   
 Oh yea, do NOT ever and I mean EVER resort to responding to someone in emails and texts by way of shortcut typing.  
   
 For example: "How r u doing?"  Geez... it wouldn't kill someone to type it out like this: "How are you doing?" We are talking about a few letters.  
   
 Other than that minor issue with the ad title, your ad content looks good to me.  
   
 The Forest Waits  
   
   
Posted By: SweetDecember
Just viewed my ad on TER. I noticed that it received 600 views. Ummm....is it possible to have 600 views and not have anyone sincerely inquire? Is this typical? Then again I guess everyone wants to be safe out here.

is very well done.  Good things, meaning quality business, come to those who have patience.  Sooner or later a guy will TOFTT and your business will be off and running.

My advice is do not compromise your boundaries or screening procedures regardless of what some guy or guys say.

Hi  Keystonekid. Thank you and am glad that you like the website. One of the ladies on TER mentioned patience to me within days of joining. I understood her saying patience is something you must learn or create a hardship for yourself.  So, I believe you make a very valid point my friend.  

Agreed,  Sooner or later one man will  stand up and TOFTT....lol!  

SD

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