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StinaValentine See my TER Reviews 278 reads
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She might have reported you as a "time waster".  How much did you argue back?

I don't really trust when my blacklist site lists time wasters because too many women are trigger happy when it comes to that. I trust it for everything else though.
Posted By: bignuts
So I saw a ad on BP from a provider offering  services .Ok so I call and ask if she was available she said yes I then asked if she did half hr rates. That was the wrong thing too ask..She went OFF on me I mean OFF on me.So I said to her no sense wasting time here I'm all set and said good bye.She then texted me giving me more shit.BLAH BLAH I could give a fuck less what she says but my question is what and where is the BLACKLIST that she said she reported me to..LMFAO  
   
 Also has this ever  happened to anyone else.

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bignuts1695 reads

I was told that I was blacklisted by a provider.has anyone ever been blacklisted.

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Blaclisting for a simple question like that is ridiculous (unless there is something you aren't telling us). In any case there are many blacklist sites. Some are private provider only sites abd some are public. You can easily find the most public ones by google searching "blacklist sites" or "escort blacklist sites."

She probably has nothing to blacklist except your phone number since I assume if your call was that short she doesn't have your name or other personal info. Hopefully it was a hobby phone. If it's your real phone than just by having the number she may indeed Have found personal info to blacklist you under. If it's just a hobby phone, then BFD.

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She might have reported you as a "time waster".  How much did you argue back?

I don't really trust when my blacklist site lists time wasters because too many women are trigger happy when it comes to that. I trust it for everything else though.

Posted By: bignuts
So I saw a ad on BP from a provider offering  services .Ok so I call and ask if she was available she said yes I then asked if she did half hr rates. That was the wrong thing too ask..She went OFF on me I mean OFF on me.So I said to her no sense wasting time here I'm all set and said good bye.She then texted me giving me more shit.BLAH BLAH I could give a fuck less what she says but my question is what and where is the BLACKLIST that she said she reported me to..LMFAO  
   
 Also has this ever  happened to anyone else.

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TalkToTrees191 reads

I posted this on another discussion board.  

Here's one example that I saw a while back...

I've seen a few postings that will yell RAPE, but give no other "identifying" information about the guy except for his first name. Do you realize how many Harrys there are in the world?  
   
No phone number is given, but this one poster claims that this Harry raped her. Really, how did she know his name in the first place? Real rapists are secretive and don't advertise their name, especially to the lady they are raping. Duh...  
   
(Disclaimer, don't get me wrong, folks, rape is a major crime and when rapists are caught, they should be fed to felons in high risk maximum security prisons! skip the criminal trials!)  
   
I've seen enough crapola on those blacklist sites that it borders on comical.  
   
How can a well reviewed provider honestly use those blacklist sites as one of their tools of screening a hobbyist?  
   
 Like I said... blacklists are stupid.  
   
 The Forest Waits  

Posted By: bignuts
I was told that I was blacklisted by a provider.has anyone ever been blacklisted.  
   
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Privateprovider208 reads

Depends on the blacklist.  I agree the public ones are useless most of the time.  The provider only ones are NOT useless.  They save us from lots of scams and believe it or not some guys are that STUPID to rape when a girl knows their name.  Ever hear of date rape? Blacklist is abused by some when in tantrum mode but we grow to see through the bs posts.  Same principle as back channel here.  If a bad seed exists its nice to warn others responsibly.

I never, ever look at or post on the public blacklists, but the private ones are quite good much of the time.

Yes, some girls abuse them, but you learn to figure out when it is useful, and when it is not.

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TalkToTrees231 reads

Really? Resorting to name calling isn't going to help your comment.

The Forest Waits

Posted By: Cosette

-- Modified on 3/28/2014 6:40:31 PM

Maybe she felt that you weren't agreeing to a date with her within a reasonable amount of time? (Considered time waster) or many other reasons... I think maybe she just placed you on her personal blacklist? Did you not show up to an appointment or cancelled last minute a few times?

i have seen plenty of clients that have used a fake first AND last name, .. more than a dozen.
 and this name is the one i use to screen and the name the other ladies also knew him as.  
so it can be done.
 i think you d have to do something really awful for one to do that,
 i dont know

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