There are sites like P411, room service, date check, that will offer you some level of verification. Some you have to pay for and also have to give up personal/work info. Some feel it's better to give up that info one time to a service, rather than give it up to every provider you wish to see.

Work info, personal info, verification services, provider referrals, I think that's pretty much it. You can start out seeing ladies that have light or no screening, and then try to use them for references, that's a little tricky to manage. Bottom line, most guys would rather not mix their work and personal info with the hobby, and most ladies would rather not get arrested or murdered. You can say to a lady "oh, I would NEVER murder you" but she knows that a murderer would say the same thing. See the problem?

I would recommend  joining a verification service, datecheck, P411 or rs2k. You will have to give them some personal info so they can discretly verify you are who you say you are, but it's better to give that info to one place than to a bunch of people you may or may not meet. After you are verified by them check out some of the newbie friendly providers on those sites. Come to TER to check their reviews and have fun. I joined P411 and have met nothing but great ladies since. Remember you my still have to give her a little more info but you will be well on your way. Things get easier after you get a few OKs. If you don't have VIP here you should get it so you can read whole reviews, read back a few pages on the newbie board and read the self help center. Good luck

...was asked here just a few days ago.  All you have to do is scroll down this page or go back a few pages.

You can also search by a keyword such as "verified" or "verification."

No need to apologize here, we are here to help.  You have been given good advice.  Gina, at P411, and her staff, will work with you to get you verified there.  That site also lets the providers indicate if they are newbie friendly which may mean their screening is a little lighter.  It's better to give out your personal info to one or two verification sites than to several providers.  The verification sites have servers outside the US which is good for us.

Swim

Thanks for the info!

Thanks for the info everyone!

I'll do my research on 411 and hopefully be on my way!

Cheers!